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Thread: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

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    Default What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    Firstly I really like this girl but I know shes doesn't have the same attraction/feelings towards me, she texts me alot and its usually about work and at very specific times of the week/day , we have texted at other times as well about other things but when I've hinted at get together she has knocked me back, they haven't really been dates I've asked her on , i just pass hints like would you be up for getting breakfast or lunch somewhere and the first time she said she couldn't because she was with her mom, the next time she didn't reply and texted back 2 hours and said her phone died, I know I've made a mistake by replying to every one of her texts and fairly promtly aswell ,I know I need to cut my ties with her but its going to be tough because we work together so should it be just a cold cutoff, what do I say if she asks why I didn't reply or did you get my text

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    Anyone ,would apreciate some feedback

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    Easy, tell her you were busy, you fell asleep, you're trying to become the next micheal schumacher, you are helping your mother become the next martha stewart. Screw her and her attitude if she asks you why she didn't get a text back. You are not her play toy as much as you led her on to be.

    Now suit-up and show her the gentleman that you are, you are valuable, you don't care if she is happy with you or not.

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    Simple - you were busy. Don't tell her with what, don't apologize, just say you were busy and immediately switch to her. Ex:

    Her - You haven't been replying lately

    You - I was busy/I've been busy lately/Life happens! What's up?

    In short, anything you say with confidence and a smile will get you through.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    What if she asks , busy doing what, I don't want to come off overly aggressive by telling her mind her own business

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    If she WERE to ask "Busy doing what?"... bust on her playfully...

    "What? are you like Nancy Drew or something? "

    or...

    "Easy there little missy, I was sworn to secrecy on this... at least until it goes public. "

    Make it more of a game. Girls get hooked by that sort of stuff.
    They complain that it drives them crazy, but it's what keeps them interested.
    (I know.. the female mind is a crazy place!)
    LOL!!



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    based on what you've told us, she probably wont ask you that. Everybody here is right though, if she does ask, tell her you've been busy. Say it casually like you didn't even realize you've left her hanging. Btw, rather than put yourself in a situation where you stop texting her cold turkey because you feel like your not getting anywhere.....you should read up on effective text game.

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    Default Re: What should I say if she asks me why I've stopped texting her

    My problem is I've been such a wussy nice guy, how do I make the change to Alpha without making it seem I'm pissed off or angry or I'm trying to pay her back


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