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Thread: Why did you tell me that?

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    Default Why did you tell me that?

    There is a contact on my Skype. She initiated a chat with "Hi". I didn't respond immediately. After 5 minutes I replied to her with "Hi". She was unresponsive. And after 15 minutes or so, I sent her 7 sentences, telling her I was busy and detailing what I was doing, she then replied, "Why did you tell me that?" I don' t know how to reply. Please help.

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    Default Re: Why did you tell me that?

    she didnt say anything after u said hi, so u typed alot of other stuff?

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    Default Re: Why did you tell me that?

    Bro, you said hi, and when she didn't reply right away, you freaked out and tried to get her approval. Now she's wondering why the heck you seem so needy. Unfortunately, I don't know how you should respond, but next time, just walk away and forget you even sent that "Hi"

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    Default Re: Why did you tell me that?

    Here's what you say:

    "But Mom, I thought you always wanted to hear how my day was going..."
    "...Wait... Mom? ...Who is this??"

    Go from there.

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    Default Re: Why did you tell me that?

    scguitar is right.

    Both you and she messed this up and this conversation is going no where good.

    Pretend that this failure never happened, don't answer her question and write her something interesting instead! Like "You can't imagine what just happened!" or "I finally have some time to relax. Looking forward to the party this weekend.".

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    Smile Re: Why did you tell me that?

    yep its destroyed. i would get over it & move on, you dont even know her.

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    Default Re: Why did you tell me that?

    Definitely approval seeking. I won't shy away and say I haven't done it. Even now! But there's a good point to do it. Like if she was genuinely upset that she didn't hear from you. And she would only care if you were actually dating or in a relationship. (If only 15 min I would even tell my gf to get over it lol) So no investment, so no need to explain yourself. EVER! Lol.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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