Would this work?
If you text a woman to let her know that you had an interesting dream last night about her.
She will likely want to know what the dream is but, at first, you play the intrigue card and let her wonder. Until she comes back and asks what the dream was about.
You then tell her that you dreamt about her and about kissing her but that she just couldn't kiss, it was like she had never been kissed before and her technique was terrible.
You then end with Wow!
Now, if my thinking about this is correct, she will then want to tell you that she is not actually that bad at kissing, and that she's actually pretty good.
This has created a situation which has boasted intrigue, emotional connection and challenge from saying that she can't kiss but that you dreamt about her. It has suggested a neg and it has given her an opportunity to think about the two of you kissing.
You can then make light jokes about her inability to kiss and perhaps challenge her until you get a reality k close. At that point you can say.. wow, perhaps you're not so bad after all, and with a wink. She will have earned the compliment with the k close and it's a rewarding compliment to let her know that she did well.
Would that work? Or have I just concocted a terrible idea?