I lost my V-Card finally . Yes, it finally happened on Friday night but there were complications.
The girl that I had sex with was super into me. She said it herself, and I know it. We did it on the first actual date. This is where things got fucked up. Well we started smoking the leaf and drinking wine while we were watching Cloud Atlas. Of Course, we did not finish the movie and we left to my bed. Now, as I was high as a kite and crossfaded, there were some problems in the hardening department. So, sex did not actually go as planned and both of us ended up not being satisfied. Then she told me just to finish off, me in my crossfaded stupidity thought I did and realized I did not have a condom on. She told me to stop and stuff got weird and she left after an intense makeout session after that. The thing is I did not orgasm, it was just some residual urine (I just went to the bathroom, 2 minutes earlier) and I was too high to comprehend that. So, that is how my first time got wasted. Now, I like her, but she is saying that she feels “weird for coming onto me so quickly” and she needs some “time to herself” as she is still “transitioning into being single”.
Now, the questions. Is she a lost case? Do you guys think I can get her back? If so how? How long is long enough for before I text her again? She made it clear that she doesn’t want a relationship, neither do I. I just want to fuck her brains out when I am not inebriated as shit. I just didn’t feel anything from that night. Please help.