I had my first date with this fine chick last week, we got coffee, went back to my house and played pool. Any physical contact had to be started by me, she even put her purse between us on the couch while watching TV! She has alot of tats so I examined them by holding her arm and turning it to see all of them, other than that very little physical contact I only got a hug good bye and a text later saying she had a good time. We texted back and forth until she started taking longer and longer to respond so I left it with "I'll talk to ya when I talk to ya"....
I went to a St. Patrick's Day parade yesterday with 40+ ppl, her being one of them, I talked to her for a brief minute or 2, but other than that I basically ignored her the rest of the day. I had to work so I left early but I could tell by her body language (ie: she was talking with different people throughout the day, and I was doing the same, but much of that time she had her feet pointed in my direction, even while she was talking to other people. (that's a big hint too guys, just to let you know....look where a woman's feet are pointed, even at a bar, if she's pointed towards you, talk to her! In my case I was ignoring her intentionally, as I am not trying to be seen as needy, which I may have done already accidently via text but I'm recovering.)
I recently got a fresh hair cut and she "liked" a pic of me with it and commented..."I like the hair cut." (late night after a day of drinking and the parade) I "liked" her comment and replied "you would". Now I'm going to wait till she texts/calls me, I'll give it 4 days or so 1 week tops before I get back to her, and ask her when I can take her out on a real date. Good idea? Bad Idea? You tell me! lol
She's a fine chick, that ALWAYS has dudes trying to get with her, so it makes things more difficult, but I welcome the challange. I know she likes me but I need to trigger an emotional response out of her to create a physical attraction towards me. How>???? lol