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Thread: Can this be saved or did I fark this up

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    Default Can this be saved or did I fark this up

    So I've been talking to this girl for two weeks , she just got back from spring break and yesterday was our second date, we hung out at her house and she cuddled with me during a movie. She is very selective about who she sleeps with and doesn't give it up easily. I knew this going in, but went over anyway. Her roommate came home and I couldn't escalate to anything, the girl sensed that I was a bit annoyed and it was getting late so I went home and she went to sleep. We had a stand off but I still got the good night kiss. She text me half an out later saying she hopes I didn't have a bad time which I replied with a I had fun I didn't think you did. She basically said she had fun but was trying to keep things light and go slow. Me being an impatient asshole responded with, yea but there's a fine line between keeping it light and being toyed with; d1ckhead/desperate move, I know. She basically responded with we've only hung out twice and that if I had other prospects I was so antsy to persue I was free to but that she was gonna go at her own pace. I said that I just didn't play games, but that the convo was getting to serious and I just said goodnight and went to bed. She usually text me everyday but hasn't yet today. I'm just impatient with girls who don't put out, but in hindsight it was only our second time and I should have given it little rest. Is this situation saveable? Should text her and act casual? Offer an apology( probably a terrible idea ) or just let it go and see if she text me one day again. She was definitely into me a lot, she just doesn't sleep with people she isn't dating.

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    Default Re: Can this be saved or did I fark this up

    These are my opinions , follow them at your own risk .

    "if I had other prospects I was so antsy to persue I was free to"
    She basically threw you a small ultimatum , basically if you still want to see her , you're gonna have to take the first step and contact her

    Give her a call tomorrow and set the table for your next date
    if she brings up the little texting conversation , drop a Kino's bombshell on her ."I want to know what's fun for you, what makes you smile, what turns you on, WHAT MAKES YOU CRAZY AND SOAKING WET, I want to know what it takes to make you laugh, I want to know everything." and enjoy the show

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    Default Re: Can this be saved or did I fark this up

    Don t be annoyed,impatient or nervous becouse girls can pick that up subconsciously you have to be relaxed at any time and things will go well

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    Default Re: Can this be saved or did I fark this up

    Quote Originally Posted by Jts3443@gmail.com View Post
    She basically said she had fun but was trying to keep things light and go slow.
    Time to toss in those playful negs: "Hey, don't get too carried away. I didn't say I was going to date you." tongue-in-cheek, playful smiles, etc. Then do some relational rapport like, "Yea, I can totally understand where you're coming from. I mean, going too fast could make things burn too hot and too fast and burn right out." If you want to make her chase you, go with a story where you did move fast with a girl, it worked out great, so this girl moving slow probably won't work well for you. Then let it just hang and see if she tries to qualify herself and chase you. If none of this gets her trying to go for you, then it probably wasn't really going to happen anways, but at least you have a cuddle buddy for movies!


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