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    astonaidan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Really feel like Im failing at this texting game

    Ok so Ive kinda got abit of One-itis with this girl who I do an part-time course with, I see her twice a week for four hours so dont really see her that much but when we speak to eachother I get a great vibe from her, however when it comes to texting my game seems to be terrible.

    Sorry in advance for long thread

    So she got my number from one of the guys in the class to ask me did I hand in a report she had given me because she was going home sick.

    19/02/2013
    L-Did you hand in my book report....Lisa?
    M-Sarah who? Ive lost count on how much book reports ive handed in, sure did luv, i underlined where i thought you could do better, cant belive you didnt trust me to hand it in, youve lost some serious cool stars over this.
    L-Tank U Shermy
    M-You forgot Im a country boi and dont get your cool city lingo, so im guessing it means handsome

    21/02/2013
    M-Its ok to be jealous I can drive 70 and sing Garth Brooks, your only human
    L-I hate Garth and like a man that takes it slow and steady
    M-Nobody hates Garth, thats just crazy. what can I say Im fast and reckless

    13/03/2013
    M-So it turns out asking for assistance in the changing room is frowned upon, i guess going the extra mile isnt in the (shop where she works) customer service handbook
    L-Can you not dress urself or wat
    M-How could I tell if the belt looked good on me? Ok it was boxers, fine it was a thong but either way he was uncooperative.

    Ok guys those are the three different times weve texted, hit me where ye think Im going wrong!

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    Default Re: Really feel like Im failing at this texting game

    I actually think your text game is fine. She is just weird lol.

    But seriously maybe the issue lies outside of your text game. It could be that she has a bf, you haven't gamed her enough, or she's just plain not interested (lesbian lol). So try a different approach. In person is always better than texting anyways. Even though I'm a beast at texting.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Really feel like Im failing at this texting game

    Was there no responses after those? like after you said it was a thong she never responded?

    im trying to think how I would do it if I was in your boots partner. Probably would stimulate some kind of frontal action. Show her what your about and that you want to pursue action with her.

    Sounds like she gets the hint already and said she likes a guy thats slow and steady...then you responded that your the exact opposite of what she liked. Was it a test? .............

    Waiting to hear if those are just excerpts or the full length of each text before I jam out more....
    Last edited by Dj Chill; 03-13-2013 at 04:10 PM. Reason: still editing

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    Default Re: Really feel like Im failing at this texting game

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I actually think your text game is fine. She is just weird lol.

    But seriously maybe the issue lies outside of your text game. It could be that she has a bf, you haven't gamed her enough, or she's just plain not interested (lesbian lol). So try a different approach. In person is always better than texting anyways. Even though I'm a beast at texting.
    I guess We both agree, i basically recommended action in person would result better than over text. Especially since texting is sometimes like mining away at a rock bit by bit, talking/or in person can go like mining that same rock with dynamite. I was going to say to even get to calling/voice sometimes instead of texting, seemingly always worked magic for me when I was seemingly stuck or slowed down. I almost hook it in on purpose to talk to some women now a days, especially with how busy people are cant do the texting and communicate properly, will lead in texting setting up a time to talk. Assuming you can get a good line in/game within 4-5 message exchanges, drop in the line hey Im in a tough spot/at work/going to meeting etc in a few minutes, give me a call/I will give you a call later XXXX time ill be out/clear.

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    astonaidan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Really feel like Im failing at this texting game

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I actually think your text game is fine. She is just weird lol.

    But seriously maybe the issue lies outside of your text game. It could be that she has a bf, you haven't gamed her enough, or she's just plain not interested (lesbian lol). So try a different approach. In person is always better than texting anyways. Even though I'm a beast at texting.
    Tell me about it, not liking Garth is crazy weird. No boyfriend that I know off and get to much a positive feedback when we talk for lesbian, Its tough enough to game her more tbh, on one of our class nights out she spent most of the night sitting beside me and kept messing with my hair when I was talking to people. I have a theory that since 2 guys in the class have tried it on with her already maybe I should wait till the term is over to ask her out
    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    Was there no responses after those? like after you said it was a thong she never responded?

    im trying to think how I would do it if I was in your boots partner. Probably would stimulate some kind of frontal action. Show her what your about and that you want to pursue action with her.

    Sounds like she gets the hint already and said she likes a guy thats slow and steady...then you responded that your the exact opposite of what she liked. Was it a test? .............

    Waiting to hear if those are just excerpts or the full length of each text before I jam out more....
    Frontal action?? That was all the messages between us in full!
    I was thinking it was a test myself, so I think I went the right way by not playing along?!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    I guess We both agree, i basically recommended action in person would result better than over text. Especially since texting is sometimes like mining away at a rock bit by bit, talking/or in person can go like mining that same rock with dynamite. I was going to say to even get to calling/voice sometimes instead of texting, seemingly always worked magic for me when I was seemingly stuck or slowed down. I almost hook it in on purpose to talk to some women now a days, especially with how busy people are cant do the texting and communicate properly, will lead in texting setting up a time to talk. Assuming you can get a good line in/game within 4-5 message exchanges, drop in the line hey Im in a tough spot/at work/going to meeting etc in a few minutes, give me a call/I will give you a call later XXXX time ill be out/clear.
    Calling people tbh is something really not done here in Ireland and tbh I dont really have the time to call people between work and college hence why I text.

    Like in class I sit directly across from her and did a few mirroring tests which she copied, when were on our five minute break one guy basically gets up and goes over to talk to her and has started to take the girls friends seat to sit beside her.
    Now I consider this needy but I may be wrong, I thought nobody noticed I was digging her but one of the guys who in his sixties called me on it after like five mins on our night out


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