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Thread: Texting a girl back after her long-a$$ freeze out

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    Default Texting a girl back after her long-a$$ freeze out

    Chatted up a HB8 at the spa in my gym 4 months ago, got in touch over professional online network, emailed back and forth about taking a coffee, I was pretty straightforward, proposed a date, she didn't reply. She proposed a date a few weeks later (bah!) over sms, I replied I couldn't that day but proposed another day. No reply. Few days after, while I was out with another gal, I saw her walking on the street with what looked like a bf. Reckon she saw me as well.

    Then, month and a half ago, while driving around with a mate, coincidentially saw her on the street, stopped and said hi. She said she'd been busy that I should call her and get in touch, gave her my phone, she input her number. I texted her 2 days later. No reply.

    Today, she texted me saying she just got back from vacation and that we should take lunch next week weds.

    Now... I figure I don't have much to lose and don't really care too much, but just to get another perspective, you guys reckon I ought to tell her i'm busy weds and propose another day and risk the annoying no reply? Or just f'ing agree to her proposal. Seems slightly weak after her not replying twice. Could be she had a bf or "complicated" situation and thus wasn't up for anything...

    Advice on which direction to take and suggestions on what to text'd be greatly appreciated. Thought of replying with: "Who is this?"

    Cheers,

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    Default Re: Texting a girl back after her long-a$$ freeze out

    wow....4 months of this? Seems like you are both just playing a game and there is no real attraction here. Honestly both your egos are in the way. I would have said yes to her proposal a long time ago.... whats the point of making it on your terms if nothing is ever going to happen? Honestly I think its too late and it seems forced at this point.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl back after her long-a$$ freeze out

    At this point just go for it. You have shown her that you can play. You dont know why she is playing so hard. Maybe shes not a total slut and just wants to make sure that you actually like her by waiting until you make the first move. Then again maybe shes a huge tease. You will never know if you don't take the chance. Yes it could be a play to show power over you. But the point is if you dont spend some one on one face time with her you will never escalate. Sometimes you have to pick your battles. Let her win this one, go see her, knock her socks off by being so amazing to hang out with!! Then maybe shell let her guard down a bit. Just some thoughts...

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    Default Re: Texting a girl back after her long-a$$ freeze out

    Yea it's tough when you lose momentum like that. I had a very similar dynamic with a woman who had a bf. Became single and got another bf. It lasted about a year. (Actually I think I still haven't seen her.) Losing momentum to where it just becomes a back and forth meet up game is just frustrating and you aren't getting anywhere. Flyboy86 is right. Pick your battles. If you lose some cool points for making the effort then so what. Once you run your game in person and it works so that you can hook up with her then it's worth the investment on your part.
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    Default Re: Texting a girl back after her long-a$$ freeze out

    I've found that more and more often these days girls get really bad ADD and will just move on if you guys can't figure out a date after 2 weeks.
    Maybe it's just girls my age, or maybe it's just how to game is evolving, but I've found that I'm more successful when I at least agree to SOME of the things they ask/request because they get all ADD on me otherwise.


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