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Thread: That one girl you like and is not into you

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    Default That one girl you like and is not into you

    I'm very good with other girls but there's this girl i like but is not into me. So, I'll be posting my recent convo with her and i want you guys to tell me what you feel..thanks

    Me: Hey (6:32pm)
    HB: Hello (7:57pm)
    Me: What's Up? (8:00pm)
    HB: nothing much, you? (8:02pm)
    Me: I'm Okay, what's going down tonight? (8:05pm)
    HB: I dunno really, you? (8:05pm)
    Me: Hmmm I've to cook first before i go out B-) (8:08pm)
    HB: Why "??", why the question marks? (8:19pm)

    (Turns out the emoji smiley showed "??" on my other phone when i sent the same message too to my other phone)

    Me: Lool didn't send that probably the smiley. (8:23pm)
    HB: ??-It's not a smiley, how can that? Nvm (8:28pm)
    HB: Ughhhhh! These girls are dancing stupidly and slimy ugh lol i can't deal!!!Whattf? (8:30pm)

    (Felt it was my chance to save the convo)

    Me: Uhmm which girls? (8:30pm)
    HB: Wrong message (8:31pm)
    Me: Oh okay (8:31pm)


    And that's how it ended...First time this is happening, even though i dont always have the best convos with her. And I'm thinking of moving on and leaving her...maybe she felt the questions marks showed i was demanding a reply..but i couldn't explain...Wanted to send her a screen shot but still kept a positive attitude. What do you guys think

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    Default Re: That one girl you like and is not into you

    Dude, way to go with the flow. Your openner and approach was extrenely boring and exactly like what she sees on a daily basis. If you wanted to catch her attention, you should have sent her a first message that was interesting and entertaining.
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    Default Re: That one girl you like and is not into you

    First messages don't really work with this girl, i've tried a couple...she replies late and gives short replies...
    She leads me on a lot...and behaves like this

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    Default Re: That one girl you like and is not into you

    Yeah, I would say start ignoring her. Snub her the way she snubs you. If she's leading you on, clearly she's just looking for that attention you give her. But it couldn't be clearer that she isn't into you, sorry.

    What this will do is force you to get your mind off her and onto other girls. And the plus side is she might start trying to get your attention again by trying to talk to you. Similar thing is happening with my friend.

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    Default Re: That one girl you like and is not into you

    Agreed with scguitar.

    You can't let any woman walk all over you. The moment you can tell that she is just leading you on is the moment that you dump her ass and move on.

    I am wondering though if anyone knows any ways to catch her attention if she is being like this and you have dumped her? Given the fact I'm on a small college campus, I want to know if it's possible to, say, "Reset"?
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