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Thread: Is she rejecting me off easily?

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    Default Is she rejecting me off easily?

    I've been doing a decent job texting this girl. Not sounding needy, being cocky funny. The day I text her to ask her out for a few drinks, she seemed very dull(lacking laughter, !, and emoticons). Anyways, she responded with the following after I asked her to meet up with me.

    Her: I'd say yes, but I have a welcome home dinner for a cousin. Just got home from Afghan.

    Me: That's cool. <<<< I royally farked up here, b/c I wanted to add. "I understand". It was too late, b/c she responded with...

    Her: Some other time.

    I didn't respond after that and the AFC inside of me felt like an ass. Anyways. move on or should I still pursue this?


    If you guys need more context, then I'll be more than happy to PM. For some reason, I'm paranoid about this being googled.

    I just want to learn from my mistakes.

    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    your situation is very difficult to comprehend.hopefully you have moved on.i think your response thats cool as in ur totally unaffected prompted that response.
    but on the other hand am thinking was she lying? but she also said she would say yes.you should have responded to her text.if she likes you she may be wondering why whether ur pissed off or something.its very risky to tell you to go back but add more options and then try talking to her.escalate.dnt forget to be safe.

    p.s. don't try the months space and time thingy. it doesn't fit here.jux saying.cuz i've fallen in that trap too.

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    Default Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    I disagree. Don't think you f'ed up at all.

    It wasn't the most inspired sms, but you can still recover. Just send a fun, light text in a week or so asking her about her cousin. Then hint at a date, or just propose a date and time after a bit of back and forth texting.

    That being said, never hurts to keep other doors open as well, and don't get hung up on her.

    Good luck

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    Default Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    your situation is very difficult to comprehend.hopefully you have moved on.i think your response thats cool as in ur totally unaffected prompted that response.
    but on the other hand am thinking was she lying? but she also said she would say yes.you should have responded to her text.if she likes you she may be wondering why whether ur pissed off or something.its very risky to tell you to go back but add more options and then try talking to her.escalate.dnt forget to be safe.

    p.s. don't try the months space and time thingy. it doesn't fit here.jux saying.cuz i've fallen in that trap too.
    I'm not sure what you're saying with that statement.

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    Default Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    Quote Originally Posted by welp44 View Post
    I'm not sure what you're saying with that statement.
    HardRock is advising you not to spend months in space, as he did

    (And/Or... he's advising against a freezeout)

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    Post Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    "hopefully you moved on"you sounded invested in this girl.you wrote on her apart from probably all the other girls you may have.in a nutshell meet more girls.

    "was she lying?we dnt care but never practice following up with a text on the reason.you never know.

    "its very risky to tell you to go back but add more options and then try talking to her.escalate.dnt forget to be safe."like i said you are obviously into this girl but its best since you may be single you practice with multiple women and her.

    don't try the months space and time thingy. it doesn't fit here.jux saying.cuz i've fallen in that trap too.

    I never froze out on a girl or given months in space and time..four to 5 days has worked for me, even though i was tempted once.jux did two days.it worked well for me.

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    Default Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    Thanks for the responses guys. I'm open to more input!

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    Default Re: Is she rejecting me off easily?

    There's nothing too bad here...

    people sometimes are really busy. It is a good thing that she said some other time.

    All you have to do is wait a few days and just send a goofy text using a hook you have.

    it can be anything: "I've accidently covered myself in fake tan! help!!"

    from here you can lead on with how you though it was moisturiser etc etc.


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