Background- Met her at new years dance, went on 4 dates, 2 make outs, then she had to fly to Alaska to work. Texted her about once per week, kept it flirty and fun. Mid-February she texted me at night saying that she misses me like crazy. We set up something to do when she gets back from Alaska. I wanted to "play it cool" and not tell her that I miss her a lot too. Found out she wouldn't be coming around until a few months, and she said she was way bummed out and missed me a lot. I decided try and be "super-unneedy" and told her I feel guilty that she misses me so much, because there's probably a lot of great stuff in Alaska that she missing because she is thinking about a guy that is 1,000 miles away from her.
Needless to say I was kicking myself in the balls a few days later. Decided to act like nothing had happened and sent her a playful text
Me: Today is a special day
Me: (with picture of mad hatter and rabbit in original alice in wonderland) Why, it's your unbirthday, of course! Happy unbirthday.
Her: But of course! Why didn't I think of that?
Me: It's okay. Everyone has their special moments (kinda referring to my own previous stupidity)
Then a few nights ago I was going crazy thinking about her and we had this convo:
Me: Look, I've got an early morning tomorrow and I can't fall asleep with you jumping around my mind like this. Please leave me alone for a minute.
Her: Just do the Harlem Shake. All will be well.
Me: That sounds like something that would just keep me awake. Maybe I'll use a sledgehammer instead.
Her: Lemme know how that goes for you...
Me: Didn't work. Now I have a goose egg on the side of my head and I'm still awake.
Her: That is not ideal.
Me: That sounds like something Stephen Hawkins' talking computer would say.
No reply after that last one and not one since. Maybe I'm just freaking out too much, but I have noticed a definite shift in her tone since we were communicating before I decided to share my enlightenment with her. Should I wait for a long time and try calling her? I haven't called her the whole time. She flies back in May. I've dated and even kissed a few other girls, but it's just not the same. Any suggestions?