Hey guys, great site and great help here. Hoping I might be able to get a little as well!
Here's the set-up: Met a woman in a professional setting, flirted lightly over a couple weeks and after giving her my info she emailed. I moved quickly to get her to meet for a brief chat which went well with some nice touching and easy conversation. Couple days go by and she texts and we end up on the phone for an easy, but long and deeper conversation. I made very clear I wanted to hook up (and thatís what I want out of this) and the next day she texts saying she's down with that, totally straightforward wanting it. End up on the phone a few minutes later and she proceeds to get really, uh, intimate, no need to say more.
Okay, so all the next week sheís texting, Iím playing it cool and being a bit of a wise ass/man in charge, but there are also some really nice phone convos that are fun and also a little more sensitive yet totally easy in nature. Come the middle of the week I let her know what time I have free and suggest getting together to do something she really seems into, not just some hook up. She texts back to say it sounds fun so the night before I call to see what the logistics are and get an answer she canít/won't go. I donít snap but was kind of quiet instead of saying it was totally cool or I have something else to do anyway. I guess I did FEEL pissed as my time is valuable and donít appreciate games when it comes to plans. Stayed on the phone a while and the convo wasnít toxic but probably just not the right time for one and sheís talking more about roles, blah, blah, blah.
I let a day go by where there was no contact initiated on either end and then sent a fun text a day later that didnít ask for or need a response. But after a little while I did get a response and we text back and forth over a couple hours. It stayed light and she was giving back emoticons. I started getting tired so after one of her responses I just didnít respond and that was it for the evening. Now itís been a day later and I havenít heard from her.
So I donít know what the next move is. I have a really good funny text suggesting a meet up ready to send but I wonder if I should just say screw it and wait to see if she responds. I do like her and now after the long calls want to open her up more, I also want to close the deal sexually. But damn I just donít want to play stupid games like kids do. Should I go ahead and initiate with the text in a day or put it on ice? Itís crap to be made to suffer for one screw up over not being totally happy about a broken date.
Need some support here bro's.