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Thread: Girl playing hard to get i need help

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    Default Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Ok we dated back about 2 years ago. Then I moved. I just recently moved back and found her. Ok I got her as a friend on Facebook. She liked every single one of my posts and kept flirting with hearts and stuff. Good night.

    next day she puts hey best friend. She then the next day messages me with like a whole paragraph of hearts. Then she said text me.
    Ok I text get she says hey. I say was a doing. She says class. She then ignores my texts for the rest the day.

    Later that day she says be on Facebook at 4. Ok I get on she keeps jumping on and not answering me at all. Then about 3 hours later she stays on for about 15 mins I message her and say what happened to 4PM. She puts IDK then gets off.

    She keeps flirting then ignoring me she always seems to answer back 2x as long as I did say I message her 1 day she doesn't answer for 2

    I need some serious help tips on how exactly to switch the power would help I don't want to seem helpless or something thanks

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Shes saying jump and you're asking how high. You switch the power when you quit answering her demands. Ignore her completely for a day or two. For most guys this is easier said than done.
    Rule Number 1: You are not a PUA.

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Dude, you sound like a puppet on string. Are you totally new the PUA world? (just asking)

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KingKino View Post
    Dude, you sound like a puppet on string. Are you totally new the PUA world? (just asking)
    yes just found this today while thinking about how to react to her

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Read the popular articles written by the members here, it'll take a while but will help you hugely.

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Quote Originally Posted by -se7en- View Post
    yes just found this today while thinking about how to react to her
    Dating is a lot like fishing. It's about patience and self control, while never over thinking anything. You've got to set the hook, but then take your time bringing it in; if you reel too hard you can rip the hook out... But reel in too soft and you can lose the fish. You have to feel when to give and when to take, but maintain a positive Tension and don't rush anything.

    As for your girl, Lao Tzu put it best: aim to please people and you become their prisoner. Fall off the grid and allow that power imbalance to slip back into equilibrium.
    Rule Number 1: You are not a PUA.

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Icarus View Post
    Shes saying jump and you're asking how high. You switch the power when you quit answering her demands. Ignore her completely for a day or two. For most guys this is easier said than done.
    Been there bro. He has it right. If you keep jumping thro her hoops then she will get bored playing with you and stop talking to you altogether. Im new to the pua community as well so i still have a problem with that myself. Lol. But if you dont want to lose the girl then fight every urge to text or talk to her(Unless you see her in person at school or whatever then just act distant and make it short). Thats what id do anyways.

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    Default Re: Girl playing hard to get i need help

    Dude, she's has you whipped beyond belief. As a lot of people have said already, she says jump you say how high. I can tell you're new to the PUA community, because this is almost like a basic fundamental understanding with relationships/pua.

    It's called the push/pull theory. They more you try to pull her to you, the more she'll push away. Stop trying to pull her towards you, she'll stop resisting. She knows she has you out of the palm of her hand, so why is she going to try and work for your attention? You've showed her there's nothing to work for. Girls want a challenge.


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