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    Default How often to text

    I'm working on this one girl who kind of just broke up with a bf. We have meet once and hookedup a little (no sex). Next day asked her to chill but she had regrets about the fwb idea. I like her so I told her we can forget that and just hang out.

    I've been texted her every couple days and she is receptive and it goes back and forth. Went from i can't do this to ok agreeing to hang out again but no set plan. Even when she has bene short in the beginning she normally comes around asking me tons of questions

    Don't wanna over due it. Last talked three days ago.

    I text other girls every once in a while, and i'm good with texting for the hookup but for girls i like i donno, don't wanna push them away. I know I'm the alpha but I don't mind chasing a little.

    When should i respond or should I wait or what

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    Default Re: How often to text

    No woman wants to be perceived as a whore; she just broke up with a boyfriend(what I would guess was a semi-long relationship) and then hooked up with you. She obviously isn't ready for commitment of any kind, be it a fwb or a possible boyfriend; and on top of that she obviously regrets what transpired. Not because of you, but of how she is perceived.

    I would personally let this one go for now, then touch base in a few weeks. However you won't, because you like this girl, and will probably text her in the next few days.
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    Default Re: How often to text

    You are probably right. We didnt just hook up. We met and talked and had a lot in common for like 4hours, and even after semi-hooking up. She didn't feel whoreish but in regardes to the commitment thing you are right. Shes the type to say what she means so the fact that she is so response to me when i text i'm not sure

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    Default Re: How often to text

    Quote Originally Posted by tonystark88 View Post
    You are probably right. We didnt just hook up. We met and talked and had a lot in common for like 4hours, and even after semi-hooking up. She didn't feel whoreish but in regardes to the commitment thing you are right. Shes the type to say what she means so the fact that she is so response to me when i text i'm not sure
    My mistake, the way I read it, it sounded like it was a drunken hook up; if you actually spent time developing a relationship with her, you probably are facing a slightly different issue: 1) you actually want something more and are feeling like you actually made a connectin with her. 2) she isn't ready just yet, and this lack of control is playing with your mind a little. Don't stress it.

    This girl sounds pretty secure with herself, and she knows what she wants. She doesn't want another relationship just yet, but isn't the type to sleep with a guy just because he built rapport. This is what some people would call girlfriend material.

    Either date her(which you obviously want to do) or move on. Wait a week or two and ask her to dinner.
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    Default Re: How often to text

    Thanks man you read the situation good. I know that she likes attention and she is younger 23 so I'm worried that if i wait too long her young emotional self will go away or move on. No worries cause sure I can always find someone new too and its just a girl.

    That being said should i scale back on the every other day/ every 2-3 days.

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    Default Re: How often to text

    Quote Originally Posted by tonystark88 View Post
    Thanks man you read the situation good. I know that she likes attention and she is younger 23 so I'm worried that if i wait too long her young emotional self will go away or move on. No worries cause sure I can always find someone new too and its just a girl.

    That being said should i scale back on the every other day/ every 2-3 days.
    While she may be young, I doubt she is emotionally unstable to the point where she will move on that quickly; and if she is, you just saved yourself from a potentially bad situation. But that thought of her moving on is what makes you want her more. You like her to where you want more than just sex, which is good, you're a sane human being. Can you give me some background on her or her past relationship?

    She seems like she's used to dating older men as it is. What was her last boyfriend, 26-28 years old and lasted for a year or so?
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    Default Re: How often to text

    I think so. I don't have all the details because we didn't talk that much about her ex bf. I know her longest relationship was a year, and I don't think it was this one but at least several months.

    At first I thought she realized no strings wasn't for her, even though when she had first talked to me she seemed colder about that me. She is a really sweet girl , and we connected on a lot of levels or as much as you can meeting someone once. I figured after I told her I couldn't do no strings with anyone anymore she might not know my true intentions.

    I didn't want to be this guy lingering around messaging her, but she responds back within an hour or two and then when she does it goes back and forth for a while. I had asked her to hang out sometime, after we had texted back and forth and she said sure we could. Then a couple days latter when I messaged her I did the same but more specific about a joke of something that makes her happy . She works in retail and I'm pretty sure has a day or two off.

    I know that she is a pretty relaxed go with the flow type of girl. Doesn't have a lot of friends or go to the bars and clubs every week, and probably just hung out with her bf when she had free time. She seems like she needs a lot of attention, but not in a needy way, but in a way like me without we get bored and wander.

    The time we did hang out was after hours of talking (sober) at a dinner place, and then we chill before and after hooking up. So while with other girls I'd just move on, I think there is a small potential if I play my cards right, since she does have that memory of a good time


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