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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    Given all the input, was there another (better) way to play out the short conversation?

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    Quote Originally Posted by RedSoBad View Post
    Given all the input, was there another (better) way to play out the short conversation?
    Yeah T-Mal's approach would have been better. Tbh Your response wasn't that bad, you were firm and you didn't pander to her or give in when she got all stroppy and said she'd never call again.... I bet she will.

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    Given how you guys characterized her as a User, which I can agree with, I am now interested if there are other categorizations that I am not aware of and would ask you to point me in the direction to read more about different types of female personalities. Namely, the ones where you derived the "user" personality from.

    I am reading and working on pandora's box, but haven't encountered (just started though) this yet, so maybe if there is similar material, please point me in the right direction.

    Thanks..

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    Quote Originally Posted by RedSoBad View Post
    Given how you guys characterized her as a User, which I can agree with, I am now interested if there are other categorizations that I am not aware of and would ask you to point me in the direction to read more about different types of female personalities. Namely, the ones where you derived the "user" personality from.

    I am reading and working on pandora's box, but haven't encountered (just started though) this yet, so maybe if there is similar material, please point me in the right direction.

    Thanks..
    Well user isnt from Pandora's box. Its just a generic popular term to describe her actions. She only pays attention to to you when she wants something: hence, user.


    Knowing about personality types is very useful as will help you judge how to push a girls buttons and what will piss her off. For this I would suggest Pandora's box really.

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    i would go with the 2nd one just for a reality check. and show not to take things for granted. girls gotta learn their lesson

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    Quote Originally Posted by metalmulisha View Post
    i would go with the 2nd one just for a reality check. and show not to take things for granted. girls gotta learn their lesson
    Would you care to elaborate please? Tx

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    Here’s the deal …

    People will respect you about as much as you want them to respect you or better said, they’ll disrespect you until you draw a line.

    This girl is used to take advantage of you, even if it sounds harsh. You’ve went alpha on her ass for a bit there, you’ve drawn the line. She got back to you in order to test you and see if you are really congruent or if it was just a one time event.

    In other words, you should not have made any apologies and sincerely, if she’s bitchy, why do you waste time with her? Simple be colder and more rational. If you let them, a women can simply rip and eat your heart out and she’ll feel like it’s her privilege, like you have nothing against. The fact that you were helping her was not such a big deal for her since you were doing it all the time so it was the status quo.

    Therefore, do you want to stop bitchy behavior? Set boundaries, real boundaries and stick to them.

    Thank you,
    Mark

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    Default Re: tough spot to continue from here me thinks

    honestly, at this point the best thing to do is to move on and learn from your mistakes- you'll only learn about the different personality types better once you start gaining real life experience and approaching and dating many women. reading something can only do so much for you.

    realize that you are the prize- women should be asking you if you need anything.

    p.s. this girl likes to be in control- so she's prob been like that in her past relationships, and will keep being that way in her future ones. move on and dont look back- tip of advice for life.


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