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    Default Time frame to get number

    Hey guys,

    So I've been talking to this girl on meetme for 20 days...simple conversation, but getting dull. Prior to coming to this site (yesterday) I've been really asking the same questions, getting old. Just got another message from her, and we have been having 3 conversations in one...stupid part on me. So I want to break it down and make it simple. How can I ask for her number? Or if I could come over?

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    Default Re: Time frame to get number

    Where is the conversation at right now? Most of the time you can interlace a meeting into them. You've already been talking for almost 3 weeks.

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    Default Re: Time frame to get number

    Don't ask for her number OR to meet up until you've built curiosity / attraction.

    Once you've done that, you can easily get her number.
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    Default Re: Time frame to get number

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Don't ask for her number OR to meet up until you've built curiosity / attraction.

    Once you've done that, you can easily get her number.
    Check out this thread for the most effective Number Close I personally have used.
    The problem is we don't know what these guys are saying; the majority of times they're probably being extremely awkward or just giving the run around. That's why its way better to work with them in person.

    I was trying to be a little nice to him, 3 weeks is way too long. If you don't have the number by day 2 or 3, move on, you're doing something wrong.
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    Default Re: Time frame to get number

    Yeah....
    A girl decides how far she's gonna go within the first 1 - 5 minutes. (including giving out her number)

    If you're paying attention, you can tell whether or not you're doing things correctly / if you're gonna get the digits.

    I made it a point to go for the number by the 2nd day, if I was talking to the girl online.

    If it's in person, then I go for it within 20-30 minutes.


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    Default Re: Time frame to get number

    Quote Originally Posted by Icarus View Post
    The problem is we don't know what these guys are saying; the majority of times they're probably being extremely awkward or just giving the run around. That's why its way better to work with them in person.

    I was trying to be a little nice to him, 3 weeks is way too long. If you don't have the number by day 2 or 3, move on, you're doing something wrong.
    Oh no your totally right and I'm realizing this is not going to work. Problem is...she returns back 2 or 3 days ahead of time. Problem was not building interest/attraction. Sure as hell don't know what I'm doing! lol

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    Yeah you should be looking to build attraction and get the number fast the move to organise a face-to-face.

    The more time you spend in text-talk land the more chance you have if fizzling out.

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    Default Re: Time frame to get number

    Quote Originally Posted by Teddyjames View Post
    Oh no your totally right and I'm realizing this is not going to work. Problem is...she returns back 2 or 3 days ahead of time. Problem was not building interest/attraction. Sure as hell don't know what I'm doing! lol
    just try to learn from it and do some reading here to get a good grasp of the basics.


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