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    bdub2070 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help. Difficult Situation

    I met a pretty hot girl last Spring. All I wanted her for was sex when I first started "talking" to her. She lived pretty close to me and once again she is beautiful. Anyways I didn't really like her in a "girlfriend" sense at that point and time so after about a month of texting me/seeing me everyday she decided she was done with me. I admit I didn't care if she left at the time and was kind of a jerk.

    What is weird is after she left me I realized what I lost and it is almost like the tables reversed. I would be totally nice to her and she would treat me like someone she didn't really care about. Anyways I chalked this up as a lost cause, but she still texted me randomly sometimes. I can kind of tell she is trying to keep me on deck or something because she openly flirts with other guys now. It blows my mind because it was legit the polar opposite for the first month when I was a jerk to her.

    What is really infuriating is that even when she texts me sometimes she will ignore me a couple texts in.
    Anyways just this past Saturday she texted me saying she wanted to see me etc. So I went over to her place and hung out with her for awhile. She seemed to show interest in me then and even said she wanted to come see me the next weekend (I moved about an hour away from where I used to, which was by her).
    She texted me the next morning and seemingly everything was good, than about 8 texts in she just stopped texting me. We haven't texted since, and that was Sunday morning.
    It sucks because she looked absolutely gorgeous when I saw her this Saturday and everything seemed to be working out then.

    What is your advice on how I handle this? I know that eventually whether it be a couple days or weeks she is going to text me. What should I do?
    I appreciate the help guys, I haven't told this to my friends to save face, but it has been tearing me up inside.

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    scguitar is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help. Difficult Situation

    It would help if we could see your texts, from what was first said to the last thing said.

    Also, did you try anything when you hung out? If not, slap yourself.

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    Default Re: Need help. Difficult Situation

    It sounds like shes keeping you in her loop. You have to regain control, be less available, date other girls, make her see you on your terms. lol This girl is an fpua she seems to have some game!

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    bdub2070 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help. Difficult Situation

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    It sounds like shes keeping you in her loop. You have to regain control, be less available, date other girls, make her see you on your terms. lol This girl is an fpua she seems to have some game!
    Would you suggest that when she texts me next I totally ignore it? If so should I wait to text her back?


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