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Thread: Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

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    Default Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

    Alright gents, I had a date with this chick I met through some mutual friends and she seemed to havea good time. I think I made the mistake of texting her too much after the date and as soon as she kept taking longer and longer to respond, I stopped. I asked her to kick it again the next weekend and she came up with some lame excuse which I basically called her out on and we havent spoken since. SO I know I'll see her again because we have the same friends but I'm not going to go out of my way to ask her to hang out considering how unreceptive she has been. So the next time I DO ask her to hang out it will be with a bunch of people, and I'm thinkign of texting this.....

    "Listen, I think that you think that I like you...Get over yourself !Considering that we have only really hung out together one time, I would have to be pretty desperate, or pretty naive to like you more than a friend. Any time I ask you to hang out, it's simply as friends, ya digg..." Something like that...Waddya think?

    The get over yourself part might be a little much...but she's one of those chicks that always has dudes after her. I don't wanna give up because I HATE losing especially when I know I can win this girl...

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    Default Re: Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

    Absolutely no man.
    Every single thing we say (especially in texting because of the absence of body language) mirrors our personality. It's not intrinsically what you say, but what you convey.

    The reply you wrote means that:
    a) you got affected by her denial, giving her reason for having rejected you
    b) you're justifying yourself. You're investing, she's not. You're leaning in, she's leaning back.
    c) you're spending more time thinking of her than she's spending thinking of you.

    Sure you can score with this girl, no matter how hard it seems, however the effort to do that is pretty big.

    What would I do? Forget her. Forget her. Forget her.
    If you really want to win her over, well, pre-selection. Take 2 of your girlfriends, or flirt with other girls and bring them over someday you'll hang out with your friends.

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    Default Re: Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

    Honestly, I think it would have adverse effects.

    Instead, demonstrate a positive & fun attitude & completely let go of the fact that she became unresponsive.

    You want to express interest in her, yet NOT come off as being clingy or needy.

    If it's been a couple days since you texted her, re-engage with something light & fun...
    Examples:

    "A basket of puppies & an ice cold beer... I could use ONE of these things right now."

    "I'm typing this text very slowly, because I know you can't read fast... "

    "OK, so there was either a Grizzly Bear in my mirror this morning, or I just really look like HELL when I wake up!"

    "I'm psychic- and I predict that at exactly this moment right now, YOU are reading this text. Pretty good huh? "

    "I think something's wrong with my phone. Every time I type your name, auto-correct changes it to 'Dork-a-licious'!!"

    "What's goin on, little swan? You're not in jail are you? (I hope not because I can't afford to bail you out!!) "



    The first thing is to get her to start responding again.
    You accomplish this by making her laugh, or at least smile when she reads your text.

    This will begin to build curiosity & attraction & she'll start showing more interest in you.



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    Default Re: Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

    Thats awesome those texts! Yeah your text was too needy straight up. Ignore that she was unresponsive. Use a light low investment text to get her responding. And offer for her to JOIN you and your friends for a fun day out. If she says no its her loss

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    Default Re: Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Absolutely no man.
    Every single thing we say (especially in texting because of the absence of body language) mirrors our personality. It's not intrinsically what you say, but what you convey.

    The reply you wrote means that:
    a) you got affected by her denial, giving her reason for having rejected you
    b) you're justifying yourself. You're investing, she's not. You're leaning in, she's leaning back.
    c) you're spending more time thinking of her than she's spending thinking of you.

    Sure you can score with this girl, no matter how hard it seems, however the effort to do that is pretty big.

    What would I do? Forget her. Forget her. Forget her.
    If you really want to win her over, well, pre-selection. Take 2 of your girlfriends, or flirt with other girls and bring them over someday you'll hang out with your friends.
    I agree completely. I would be on 2 the next. If she does'nt meet your standards then don't break a sweat.
    Practice Makes Perfect

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    Default Re: Perfect text after first date to unreceptive chick

    Yeah thats rubbish bro go back to the drawing board.


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