Been seeing this girl for a few weeks - cool and sexy, I like her blah blah etc. She normally stays at mine when we go out
Last couple of week's she has flaked on me 3 times. I am not too worried as:
A - she doesn't give any bs excuses, and re-arranges every time.
B - She is still keen based on texts/calls
C - I have a lot going on at the moment so I don't have time to make a big deal about it (this is my first free evening in ages, and it's only because she flaked tonight!)
1. first was drinks with my friends/her friends - she said she was tired and didn't feel like meeting new people
2. second she said she would rather stay at a bar with her best friend than come across town to meet me, she was having fun. She suggested re-arranging
3. tonight sister is really ill, gone to hospital. Not in the mood to go on a date. Said I'll call her next week, she said great, thanks.
Out of interest, how many people would give up, how many would keep going? I will call her next week, I don't gain anything by 'freezing' or ignoring her, plus I'm not actually angry with her. 3 Flakes in a row is a lot, but she is up for re-arranging. Think I have anything to worry about?