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Thread: What to tell girls that want a long term relationship when I don't.

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    Default What to tell girls that want a long term relationship when I don't.

    I have several MLTRs and I like it that way. Now, I still meet and date new HBs. I enjoy the chase and the seduction. However, some girls end up believing that we are in some kind of relationship that will terminate with marriage. I hate these kinds of perspectives these particular girls have because our relationship crashes and burns badly. I don't like hurting girls like that. I want more MLTR and to see more HBs. I'm happy with that.

    In your experience, how do you handle girls that want a monogamous, long term relationship? How can I effect a clean breakup that won't hurt so bad?

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    Default Re: What to tell girls that want a long term relationship when I don't.

    Honesty!

    Just tell them from the get go you're not looking for anything serious but are happy to see how things pan out.

    Don't assume that every girl is longing for a relationship.

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    Default Re: What to tell girls that want a long term relationship when I don't.

    I'll start doing that. I've only been registered here for not that long. Lot's of great info and advice here.

    I just hating breaking a girl's heart. I like to leave them better than I found them, not bitter and remorseful.

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    Default Re: What to tell girls that want a long term relationship when I don't.

    Quote Originally Posted by PartyViking View Post
    I'll start doing that. I've only been registered here for not that long. Lot's of great info and advice here.

    I just hating breaking a girl's heart. I like to leave them better than I found them, not bitter and remorseful.
    You do that by telling the truth. If you lie and string them along that's much much worse. Honesty from the get go is the way forward my friend


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