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    Cashed Jerk is offline PUA in Training
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    Default I don't know how to keep girls

    Every girl I meet in my life ends up leaving me after 2 or 3 days. Recently, I just met a french girl I really like, she invited me to her place and it was a fun night. After, we didn't really talk well and I got her a MK Handbag thinking you'll like it. I told her I got her a gift and she asked why, told her cos I missed her birthday day, she wants to know the gift. And I don't want to tell her...just want to surprise her. Tried to make jokes out of it by telling her I got her a house, but she won't talk anymore . Did I show too much desperation after the night with her or did she lose interest? I know i showed too much desperation..Now should I tell her "i was lying...that I just met her and how can I really give her a gift" or what do you think?

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    Default Re: I don't know how to keep girls

    You're definitely investing too much too soon.

    Girls want a bit of a challenge, because to them, that means you're a man of high value.

    If you're easy to get & you bend over backwards to please her, buy her things & do things for her right from the beginning, there's no challenge.

    She'll get bored, lose interest & possibly get a wee bit creeped out.

    You want HER to make an equal (or slightly greater) amount of emotional investment.
    Once she does that, then it's TOTALLY cool to buy her little things or pay for things like dinners, drinks, etc.

    But doing it too soon makes her think you're not cool enough or confident enough... so you're trying to buy her attention.

    That's probably what's been happening.


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    Default Re: I don't know how to keep girls

    Yeah...That's what happened...
    So my next move is to ignore her for some days and text her. But I really don't know out to get out of the situation at hand...i really shouldn't have gotten her a gift...She still hasn't replied and this is very unlike her...She replies so fast.

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    Default Re: I don't know how to keep girls

    DAMN T-MAL your so fast at replying!
    Cashed Jerk, Im sure this girl is nice but you might be pushing her away with your gift. Pull back a bit, dont worry about her text just wait patiently a few days and retry but being less needy. Be prepared to cut this girl out of your loop. Theres more girls and you have to know when to cut your losses. Good Luck!


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