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Thread: From Match to Facebook

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    Default From Match to Facebook

    Hopefully this is posted in the most relevant forum. Anyways, I ran across a girls profile on Match.com that I was interested in, but she stated in her profile that she wasn't a subscriber and to find her elsewhere. Her username is identical to her name, so I found her on Facebook. I was planning on sending a message just stating that I ran across her profile on Match, give her a compliment or two, then ask her a general question about her education/career. Any input is appreciated.

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    Default Re: From Match to Facebook

    Why would she have a profile in match that says "find me elsewhere" ?? That seems odd.
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    Default Re: From Match to Facebook

    She didn't want to pay for a subscription but still wanted to be able to have people contact her is my guess.

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    Default Re: From Match to Facebook

    That is strange, but anyway, go for it. What do you have to lose? I would just keep it funny... use the whole fine me elsewhere part and how easy it was to find her, etc. I would leave out the general question about career / education. Just keep it light, fun, and funny... no more than like 2-3 sentences
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    Default Re: From Match to Facebook

    I agree with blazeboy, start out with the initial introduction by saying that you went through the effort to find her somewhere else and work on the other details in the future messages.

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    Default Re: From Match to Facebook

    I would go right in on face book and let her know that you seen her Profile and you are interested in talking. .. that action in itself should get you going but you are v probably not the first... nothing wrong with the match t Facebook.

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    Default Re: From Match to Facebook

    I understand the "not wanting to pay" thing...
    But DON'T compliment her on her looks.

    It's OK to compliment her on her "sly ability to beat the system on match" though. ;-)

    (That's what I would use for my opener. (Along with calling her a cheapskate)
    ;-)

    Razz her & tease the hell out of her!!
    Most guys would be afraid to do that... but that's what will stand out & separate you from the rest of the chumps.


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    Thanks for all of the replies. I'll send her a message later today and update with progress.


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