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    Default Need help ASAP

    Im doing some online dating and i had a girl ask me what separates me from other guys. Ive had a girl ask me that before and i replied what separates me is that im fucking awesome. What do you guys think about that reply?

    By the way they ask me that as a reply to me asking what separates them from all the other girls.

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    "I don't really know. It's just what my mommy always told me until I stopped breast-feeding in 5th grade"
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    Default Re: Need help ASAP

    Quote Originally Posted by Odlaw View Post
    Im doing some online dating and i had a girl ask me what separates me from other guys. Ive had a girl ask me that before and i replied what separates me is that im farking awesome. What do you guys think about that reply?

    By the way they ask me that as a reply to me asking what separates them from all the other girls.
    It's a loaded question. She's asking you to qualify yourself to her. If you answer seriously, you've already lost. You can answer sarcastically like the other guy said or you can flip it on her and make her qualify herself to you e.g. "Why would I tell you all about me when you haven't told me why I would want to get to know you better. Beauty is common, tell me 3 positive traits about you besides your looks." A lot of girls cop out so don't expect too much from this.

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP

    urbancowboy has a point. But she may be too clever to simply comply with a direct qualifier since you didn't comply with hers. Try using the same formula, but with another approach. Perhaps with humor.

    "Whoah are we starting the interview now? Why would I want to work for your company?"
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP

    Well that's a tricky one... however my friend, I'd say something like "I'm gay/a shemale"

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP

    Maybe you should quit asking THEM that question...
    ;-) LOL!

    But... I would reply with: "How curious are you about finding out the answer?"

    Whenever you answer a question with a question, it gives you control of the interaction again... and it's a subtle way of flipping the situation in order to get her qualifying herself.


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