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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    It's different on how she is as a person. My female friend kind of decided to come to a general preparty I had, but in the last moment couldn't come due to stomach pains. But next time I suggested her to come to a preparty it was only us, and after the cozy preparty where we sat hugging in a couch watching some TV-series and drinking, we went to separate parties. She's however a girl that don't get together with her best friend, but she's still coming over now in an hour for prepartying 1 years later

    But other people keep asking her "Come over for a movie!" again and again, and she finds that only annoying. I'm not sure what one of the guys was doing wrong (she did like him), but I think that it was the same question and setting all the time and this trained her to say no all the time. She was like "Oh, now he asks me again! Annoying!" and I asked "So come over here for some movies then." - "OK! "...

    What I mean with other friends is mostly that it must be non-serious kind of thing. In my case a preparty and then we went to separate parties, but that's my party life :P

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    I actually has the same problem as you at the moment, by the way. There is a girl that I want to meet more of and I have a pretty good idea of how to handle her (we've met casually 3 times, and 2 of the times she hunted me down to hug me good bye), but it's hard to find excuses. She didn't want to drink today, but she was the only one who actually bothered to write why she didn't want to come.

    I guess the trick is to just generally live a more interesting life. For me I should start playing some games to talk to her more, but I'm not sure which ones and my interest would be fake :P

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Some girls just dont respond to text date requests. More in person comfort is needed (and yeah i know that's what your trying to do... but it is basically the problem at the same time. Confused lol??)

    I have a basic checklist i go through with women i can only reach via text before i drop her...

    1. Does she respond well to texts? As in, she plays along and has fun with you.
    2. Is her schedule nuts? Sometimes you must cut her some slack with this. If no.1 is positive, then ask her about this. But in a way thats not needy (boy... u must be a millionaire! U have no free time. Your like working all the time arent u?)
    3. Does she let u know she cant make it or does she not respond at all? Obviously, not responding at all is bad.
    4. Dont worry about how long she takes to respond. Refer back to 2. If she gets off at 11pm, then dont expect a response at 6pm or even the same day.
    5. neg her. Tease her about not being free. This should be last resort tho. Text her "that was your last chance "
    6. Freeze Out, move on. If you did good she will respond to a freeze out. But it may take awhile. One girl didnt get back to me until 4 months later... but its been going way better since.
    7. Did i ask for a coffee date? This has low commitment. If she doesnt respond to this, then u got a problem
    8. Make the best of every in person contact. If u see her in class or wherever, make sure your building attraction... even if only a centimeter. Every little bit of attraction or comfort counts.
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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Some girls just dont respond to text date requests. More in person comfort is needed (and yeah i know that's what your trying to do... but it is basically the problem at the same time. Confused lol??)

    I have a basic checklist i go through with women i can only reach via text before i drop her...

    1. Does she respond well to texts? As in, she plays along and has fun with you.
    2. Is her schedule nuts? Sometimes you must cut her some slack with this. If no.1 is positive, then ask her about this. But in a way thats not needy (boy... u must be a millionaire! U have no free time. Your like working all the time arent u?)
    3. Does she let u know she cant make it or does she not respond at all? Obviously, not responding at all is bad.
    4. Dont worry about how long she takes to respond. Refer back to 2. If she gets off at 11pm, then dont expect a response at 6pm or even the same day.
    5. neg her. Tease her about not being free. This should be last resort tho. Text her "that was your last chance "
    6. Freeze Out, move on. If you did good she will respond to a freeze out. But it may take awhile. One girl didnt get back to me until 4 months later... but its been going way better since.
    7. Did i ask for a coffee date? This has low commitment. If she doesnt respond to this, then u got a problem
    8. Make the best of every in person contact. If u see her in class or wherever, make sure your building attraction... even if only a centimeter. Every little bit of attraction or comfort counts.
    My situation with this girl is a rather confusing one. Tell you what, I'll try to break it down for you via PM when I get off work.

    But yes for the most part she plays right along with my texts, especially when I started using T-Mal's guide to texting. Unfortunately both times last week I proposed a meet-up is when the texting stopped.

    You'll have a better idea of whats going on when I PM you.

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    If she stops responding when you propose a meet-up, I can only take that as she doesn't want to, but can't come up with a good excuse. It's bad behaviour, but she behaves like that just because she doesn't know better, so there's no use to get annoyed about it.

    But as she likes the texting, sooner or later, she will get curious and want to meet you. But she has already "said" no two times so don't ask her again. She'll let you know with hints when she's really bored, horny or some other hint that she wants to meet you, but expect the first ones to be just tests (I've even got "I'm so horny now! I wanna f**k!!!" and then she turned me down. Stupid me... I should have knocked on her door if I knew what I know about her now :P ). Deny these but first tell her how much fun you two would have had if you could. Like: "I could so easily cure your boredom and come over with some wine and cheese, but I have to run now. I hope you find something cool to do!".

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    My sister-in-law asked her if she wanted to hangout with us this Friday night, and she said "sure". So yeah unless she backs out, we'll be hanging out on Friday. Theres gonna be a total of 6 people there, so I'm not putting much thought into it.

    I haven't talked to her since last Monday though, so I'm not sure how to play this one.

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Nice

    It's good that you haven't talked for a long time. Now you should have plenty to talk about. I personally make a mental list of things to talk about, but at the same time be prepared and somewhat try to wish for that things will not play out as I've planned. And be happy to see her, but don't cling to her. If you try to freeze her out, you'll appear to be like a whiny kid. Instead just try to have fun with the others also.

    I'm not the one to give advice about how to handle this though, except that you should pay some attention to her body language and come up with fun things you can do together without at this moment asking her out.


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