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    Default What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Hello, I'm looking for some great examples of texts that are specifically meant for meeting up with the girl. I've been reading on here a lot about how to text a girl, more specifically T-Mal's advice, and while they do turn out great responses I've fell into the trap twice now without ever proposing a meet up before the conversation dies. I also haven't texted this girl since Friday because if there is a chance I can pick up the pieces I wanna avoid becoming her texting buddy and avoid coming off as clingy and needy.

    I'm guessing I'm looking for some tips on how to initiate the key-lock sequence; Sparking Emotion, Making a Connection, and Logistics. But I'm stumped on how to go about it. What are some examples you guys have used and had success with.

    She just got her drivers license so I was thinking about using this as opening:

    "Hey Danica lol, now that you've finally gotten your license how bout a little one on one race action"


    I'm not sure if that sounds lame, but thats why I'm here.

    I was also thinking of using this:

    "Hey I was just playing my guitar, and it made me think of you."

    But since we haven't hung out for awhile now, I'm afraid she might think that its creepy and weird.

    Also is it ever too late to try using the cube tactic?

    What do you guys think? Criticism is always appreciated!

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    The key is, to make sure you're constantly working on flirting & building attraction... Never stop doing that.

    Flirting is going to keep the interaction FUN, and fun is the ultimate attraction switch.

    Then, when you go for the meetup keep that same vibe & present the invitation in a way that's going to entice her & make her want to go out.

    Here are a few examples of texts I've used, when I was ready to initiate a get-together:

    "Hey Sweet Face, 1 Big milkshake / 2 straws.... Saturday at 4:04"

    "Aloha little mermaid, get your tail-fin ready cuz It's beach time! I'll get u at 1:02"

    "Craving pizza! Roll with me this Fri @ 8:13! you'll love their hand-tossed crust!"

    "Hey mamacita, margaritas Sat nite. Come to my place & we'll roll @ 7:27 ! Adios mi amiga!"

    "Tomorrow - Hot, 95 & sunny! I'll be poolside with a cold drink. Bring your sunscreen! "

    "Sushi time... tomorrow 6:06 PM. The Yellowfin roll is to die for! "



    These express that you have a plan & are presented with confidence in a playful, humorous way.

    This style is MUCH better than, "Hey, I was wondering if you maybe wanna hang out sometime? Let me know if you're interested."



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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Love these;

    I often go to the zoo (seriously the number of dates I've taken there I should just buy a year-round pass) so I normally go with:

    "Hey [insert chosen nickname] I need to grab myself a new penguin, my old one died of fungal flipper, so grab your net and meet round mine; operation grand theft pingu starts tomorrow at 4:23 sharp!"

    From here you can build on how she can distract and flirt with the keeper whilst you nab your feathery friend.

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    You have 2 ways. The first one is the T-Mal way

    The 2nd one is a little bit more risky... something like "hello (nickname). I'm ready."
    Her: "what/why?"
    You: "You're taking me out to (anything) ;-)".

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    I love telling them to take me out, it never works for me though lol.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Yeah it's risky Blistex, so you gotta have some good background with the girl... though it works way much better face 2 face

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    agree with lenric, it's ballsy but it's a great opener imo.

    ps sidewinder89, this zoo date sounds off the hook, I think I'll try it out on this tall HB7 when she responds to my "dork butt" txt

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    I think its time I stop deluding myself and face facts that its never gonna happen between me and this girl.

    I started talking to this girl again about two weeks ago and I've been improving my texting style with some great ideas from this forum mostly using T-Mal's Texting Do'sand Don'ts Guide. I've tried to be funny, flirty, witty, even random, and it has lead to some fun text exchanges, but I tried proposing a meet-up on this past Monday, she flat-lined and never got back to me. Thats meet-ups rejected if I count my fake Dr. text prescription from the week I started texting her again.

    may be I'm expecting results to soon, but thats two meet-ups rejected so I doubt it.
    It appears I can't reverse whatever damage was done before I decided to give it a restwith her. I don't wanna let her go but clearly I'm not winning her over.

    I haven't texted her again since Monday, if she should text me in the coming days then awesome. But I don't suspect that will happen.

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

    Talon_TSi: Don't worry so much. You asked her out when there was not enough attraction, but you haven't messed up. Take it slow for some time.

    Then just pretend that never happen, continue to text her in a fun and exciting way, now and then you can drop her a line that you're having some friends over and she's welcome to join in or something like that, but never suggest dates anymore only way more causal stuff where something else than meeting her is more important.

    This will definitely lead to the friendzone, but if she's a kind of girl that do tend to get together with her friends you can get out of the friendzone by pushing her really hard into it and treat her like a guy (and talk about sex and what you like in a girl but never mention her). It will probably not work if she's a Cindirella, but if she's a somewhat nerdy and independent girl with lots of male friends she'll get very turned on by your passion that she sees, but that isn't directed at her, so that she has to chase it. No need to play hard to get or neg her (she's see that as needy unless she's a romantic, and then you've already lost) but let her work and reward her with sex.

    (I spent the weekend with Pandor's Box, and that is new to me and I might just repeat what I've learnt like a parrot, so excuse me for that.)

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    Default Re: What are some great examples of texts that aim specifically for meeting

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    Quote Originally Posted by FriendzoneDominator View Post
    Talon_TSi: Don't worry so much. You asked her out when there was not enough attraction, but you haven't messed up. Take it slow for some time.

    Then just pretend that never happen, continue to text her in a fun and exciting way, now and then you can drop her a line that you're having some friends over and she's welcome to join in or something like that, but never suggest dates anymore only way more causal stuff where something else than meeting her is more important.

    This will definitely lead to the friendzone, but if she's a kind of girl that do tend to get together with her friends you can get out of the friendzone by pushing her really hard into it and treat her like a guy (and talk about sex and what you like in a girl but never mention her). It will probably not work if she's a Cindirella, but if she's a somewhat nerdy and independent girl with lots of male friends she'll get very turned on by your passion that she sees, but that isn't directed at her, so that she has to chase it. No need to play hard to get or neg her (she's see that as needy unless she's a romantic, and then you've already lost) but let her work and reward her with sex.

    (I spent the weekend with Pandor's Box, and that is new to me and I might just repeat what I've learnt like a parrot, so excuse me for that.)
    FriendzoneDominator, thanks for response.

    I see your idea and while I kinda like it, it does have a few problems. To keep texting her while keeping it fun and inviting her to hang out with friends is a great idea if I had a lot of friends, but I don't. My best friend moved to New Jersey when he got married, other than that I have coworkers I could consider friends but they're also the polar opposites of me, and I don't consider them close. All I really have are my two brothers and sister-in-law, my social circle is not big. My brother and sister-in-law introduced us to each other in the first place, so I'm not sure how easy it would be to get her to hangout with us. I might literally have to say no strings attached.

    I honestly don't really mind if we're just friends at this point. I had fun hanging out with her and I'm pretty sure she did too, so I don't wanna see her just disappear from my life. I just don't wanna end up as just another acquaintance to her instead of actually being friends.

    I also have not initiated text with her since last week on Monday, nor has she texted me. But I am thinking about texting her some time this week, maybe today even. I'm just not sure how to go about it yet. I definitely want to get her to hangout with the group again though.

    Thoughts?


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