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    tonystark88 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Good sign or bad?

    So there is this girl I had met a couple weeks ago for a non-strings relationship. We got food talked for hours and had a good time, and then went back to her place talked more fooled around a little and then talked more. She had just gotten out of a relationship

    I knew I liked her far more than just a fuck buddy, asked her to hang out the next day she said she couldn't do fwb ( I also knew it was during her period so she was extra emotional). i told her I could do the same. Kept texting her every couple days and we would goback and forth for a long time.Finally she actually texted me first

    I knew there was some guy who blew her off for a 2nd date so I decided to swoop in and instead of asking in vague terms to hang out make plans.

    We went to a movie, but took the train before and walked around then got drinks. All around good vibes and fun. We walked back to her house and it was kind of understood I'd stay over but not in what context. We talked laughed . I went in for a kiss but she only went for the cheek. I asked if she wanted me to stay over and you started saying it was no big deal if I wanted to go acouple times but I could tell she wanted me to stay. I told her don't over think it I always do what I want, I just wanted to ask. Some of the night I had my arm around her some not. Next day we laughed some more and walked back ( my house was on the way to her train)

    I know this girl doesn't want to give it up just to any guy like she had in the past, and honestly I like her enough to take it slow. As far as escalation the previous time we had seen each other naked and all that so its not like she doesn't know what that is like.

    I was thinking/hoping that she just wanted to take it slow and see if I was just there to f her or not. She seemed like she had a lot of fun, and rarely do I ever sleep over at a girls house and not do anything but it seemed comfortable.

    Does it sound like I am being friend zoned or she just wants to take it slow.

    Thanks for reading this long post but you guys are the best!

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    tonystark88 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Good sign or bad?

    Also, at this stage when would be a good idea to contact her again?

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    Default Re: Good sign or bad?

    don't double post: wrist slap.

    I think you've really mis-read this situation:

    1) she move her head to the side to avoid a proper kiss, if she wanted to sleep with you she would have kissed you... kissing comes before sex!!!

    2) she repeatedly told you, "it's cool if you want to go", this is womanese for "please go"

    3) you seemed like you were pushing things too fast rather than building attraction and escalating naturally.

    personally I think you need to be more flirtatious and mysterious to build attraction before you broker the topic of sleeping with her again. Oh and this should be common sense but kiss her before pushing the sex card.

    It's hard to read as your message is kind of confusing, so you stayed over and saw each other naked or what?? exactly how far have you got??

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    Default Re: Good sign or bad?

    Sorry about the double post. First time we met we hooked up a little (not sex) so it's not like things never escalated. That was more for nostrings though which we both didn't want.

    I read as she knows she knows she I start kissing her again things are going to happen and she wanted to take it slow. She invited me over at 4am saying she was tired to have me stay over. When I asked she said its no big deal to act like it wasn't a big deal in case I left after the no kiss.

    I wasn't trying to have sex


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