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    Default Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    I have gone back to my hometown for a few weeks and have a few numbers from where I am at uni that I haven't closed a D2 with yet. Tbh most of them I'm not bothered about letting go cold, I'll just get new ones when I'm back at uni........one of them however is really, really hot. I'll admit I may have a touch of oneitis for her, it's not effecting my game or nothing, just want to succeed more than usual. Anyway I was thinking to stop the interaction getting stale whilst I'm away...maybe we should have a Skype 'date'? I was thinking just a video call really, if anyone can think of any way to advance this then let me know. But as a general idea......is it good or bad?

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Well I'm kinda old school here mate, skype dates/skype sex/phone sex is like fucking a doll.
    I'd leave skype/etc only for setting up meetings/building some kind of attraction, but no more than 5/10 minutes.

    Anyway, I can totally relate to you mate, it's tough when oneitis strikes. Talk to her but not for too long... and obviously meet new girls. Every single girl in the world has something special about her. Our job as aspirants to Alpha Male is to discover it and make her discover herself.

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Yeah normally I'd agree, but Its not possible for me to see her for like 3 weeks, and although Iv seen her a couple of times on nights out and k closed I don't want the interaction to stale over this period, plus she's only 18 so this sorta thing being a bit different I'm thinking it will stick in her mind. And it's not proper oneitis, I just really want to fark her, it's not often I find a girl that I find as sexy as I find her

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Well then do as your intuition says. We should always do what our intuition says, the thing is that sometimes our heart/mind tell us something different and we fuck up.

    Good luck mate

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    I think it's fine when you're in an LTR, especially if it's long distance. It's the best way to translate that cocky/funny and confident vibe. Body language comes into play, something you don't get in texts or phone calls.

    For a girl you're just gaming...I'd say stick with texting. It's light and fun, doesn't show much commitment. If she suggests it, I'd say once or twice is fine, maybe for half an hour max. Try to do it when you're around friends, it'll give you an excuse to keep things short and show social proof.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Ok so general consensus is it ain't such a good idea cool, cheers guys, I'll stick with texting, might just cut it down and not text her as much

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Yea I agree with the rest of the crew here. Someone so new...the game should be played in person. However definitely keep yourself in her mind with a random funny text or two after a week or so. Just remember that YOU will end the convo, just escalate it to a high quickly then back out and get on with your day. Shell associate you with fun good feelings. That way when you get back into town you can hit her up....after a day or 2 of course. She might even text you first if she knows you are back in town. I tried this recently with a girl I had over and only k closed (I didn't f close the first night cause I chickened out...idiot) anyways I let it be known on fb I was back. I didn't text her, boom a day after I got back she hit me up then I f closed! If the attraction isn't enough for her to text you after a day or 2 definitely hit her up and get some face time.

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Quote Originally Posted by Flyboy86 View Post
    Yea I agree with the rest of the crew here. Someone so new...the game should be played in person. However definitely keep yourself in her mind with a random funny text or two after a week or so. Just remember that YOU will end the convo, just escalate it to a high quickly then back out and get on with your day. Shell associate you with fun good feelings. That way when you get back into town you can hit her up....after a day or 2 of course. She might even text you first if she knows you are back in town.
    I'm sure Linking already knows how to run text game. The guy's a champ.
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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Haha indeed I do bandit thanks for the endorsement

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    Default Re: Skype dates...good or bad? Linking

    Oh yea hahahaha nice point. I've been out of the loop


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