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    Default Advice needed for 1 girl (easy answer)

    Okay so I started talking to this girl thats a friend from my co worker. We hit it off well. Shes complete opposite of me however. But easy to talk to. Flirting went well and all that.

    We went on a date. Went to Chipotle and back to my apartment. We watched a movie. Gave eachother back massages. We start playing fighting lol and she gets on top of me. She starts grinding on me like dry humping. But then stops and acts like a tease. I didnt wanna force sex or stuff like that so I let it go. Took her home. Got my goodbye kiss and thats the first date.

    Text her 2 days after and shit like that. She just got a job working 8-3:30pm. Its her first job and its manual labor and i guess shes not used to working. Apparently she goes to sleep as soon as she gets off. wakes up, eats dinner and goes back to bed. Funny routine because her dad does the same thing.

    Our texting has slacked off. I'll text her back and forth a few times with some game get her laughing, then she will go ghost mode..i guess she fell asleep?Shes told me that a few times.

    Do I disregard this girl? I mean I dont wanna fall in friendzone even though we already went out, but texting her alot seems bad, and i dont know how to go about it if thats her routine. She said this week shes busy with work and the weekend shes visiting family. The monday after easter do I setup a 2nd date? I already told her what I wanted to do. Mexi restaurant since thats her fav and ice skating or something.

    I have this bad habit of only talking to 1 girl at a time so I dont have other options.

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    Default Re: Advice needed for 1 girl (easy answer)

    Phone game sounds more effective on this girl. It also seems like texting with her could be quite risky so I would say try to steer away from text convos and go for more like "chats." Keep it short, sweet, and push for the meetups. I would let it simmer down for like 2-3 days, and then text her something like, "I'm done with texting, you can't keep me entertained. I'm going to call you in 20 minutes (however amount of time). Make yourself available." If she picks up, nice. Flirt with her and keep it somewhat short for the first call. By the end, establish the next time you'll talk on the phone.

    Me: I've been pretty busy, but I enjoyed this conversation. We'll talk again Tuesday night (whatever time or day you feel).

    If she doesn't pick up, go for the cliffhanger voice mail.

    Me: Hey, this is (insert name). I really need your opinion on something so give me a call back. Talk to you soon.

    When she calls back say something like, "I was just wandering what color shirt to wear on our next date, I don't want to match."

    Overall, the theme is take risks. I know you like her, but you HAVE to take risks. People talk to multiple girls at once for the soul purpose of when taking a risk, if it goes south, they have other options. Since you don't have other options, get some! If you can't then I invite you to feel bad if things don't go as planned. IE, get some options lol.

    Edit: Lastly, now's the time to switch your Mindset. Don't focus on the outcome. Focus on the day to day. What can I do to make my interactions better? How do I go about creating the best version of myself? The way life is, you win some and you lose some, that's a given. Why waste time on not knowing what's going to happen. Focus on what you can control, and learn to take risks that ultimately allow you better yourself. (In terms of confidence and such things). Good luck my dude!

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    Default Re: Advice needed for 1 girl (easy answer)

    Last interaction was yesterday about 3 or 4 texts before she went to sleep. Ill do what you said but should I wait until thursday and say the "you texts arent entertaining me"? As first text while ignoring her ifshe texts today or tomorrow. Tomorrow is out the question. Or i could do it tonight

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    Default Re: Advice needed for 1 girl (easy answer)

    I would say give it a couple of days. Thursday sounds fine. If she throws anything your way just ignore it, unless either A) she sends multiple texts trying to reach you or B) she says something particularly flirty. I doubt either scenario will happen so just ignore for now because your "busy." She's kinda forcing you into her schedule, but you don't want it like that. You operate on your own time in your own world, and she needs to hop on that clock.

    I'll give you a better line than the "I'm done texting you" thing. It comes off as slightly needy to me. Don't worry though, I'll give you something better to say before the time comes.

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    Default Re: Advice needed for 1 girl (easy answer)

    I will be watching thread. Thanks. pls deliver by thursday

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    Default Re: Advice needed for 1 girl (easy answer)

    I would say something like this

    Me: I know you're dying to hear my voice so I'll grant you your wish. I'll call you once at 7:39 pm sharp. Make yourself available. (set whatever time you want but just make sure you say "pm sharp".) Call exactly on time. Good luck bruh!


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