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Thread: Last Stand (when texting an unresponsive girl)

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    Default Last Stand (when texting an unresponsive girl)

    Last stand (familiar to anyone who plays COD) is a term I coined for when you're texting a girl, and she's just being unresponsive or disappearing for random reasons.

    I'm out to qualify girls, not for them to qualify me. Therefore, once I get a number, and I hit up a girl 2-3 times, and I'm not seeing the results I want to see. The girl goes into last stand. It's basically a final attempt to hold a conversation with girl before they get "x'd" off the list. Some guys move on. I do last stand. Now it may come off as needy, or desperate, but the reason why I don't care is because it will literally be the last time I ever talk to that girl again so any kind of neediness gets diffused.

    Here's an example:

    I number closed an HB 8 a little over a week ago. I texted her, she responded, I texted her again, then I got no response.

    I waited 2 days, then I texted her again. She responded, I responded, she responded, I responded, then no response.

    Next time I waited 4 days. Here's the convo

    Me (1:45 pm): Hey there

    Her (2:03 pm): Hey there boy im working

    Me (2:14 pm): That's cool little missy. I see you're slacking on the job texting, and doing God knows what else lol

    Her: No response

    Now she may not have responded due to a number of reason (still working, busy, etc), but it doesn't matter because based on our previous interactions. This girl has a history of not responding. Thus she got thrust into last stand. The goal is to set a time when you're going to talk, and follow through with it

    Last Stand:
    Me (6:56 pm): Man holding a convo with you is almost impossible sheesh lol. Imma call you once at 9:04 pm sharp. Make yourself available.

    Her: *no response* although I'm not looking for a response here

    I throw in the "once" to kinda subconsciously signify that I'm never going to try to reach them again.

    9:04 rolls around, I call and get no pick up. So I leave a cliff hanger voice mail. "Hey there Rebbecca with 2 b's (inside joke). This is Lonnie. I really need your opinion on something, so give me a call back as soon as you get this. Talk to you soon."

    After that, last stand is complete and you X her off the list. I would say it works like 30% of the time.

    The way the story ends though is she texted me later that night.

    Her (10:10 pm) Hey I missed ur call cause I had to take an extra shift for a friend sowwi ;(

    BAAM!! that's the kinda response you're looking for. She wanted me to call her, but guess what? I'm a busy man, and I don't have time for flakiness. This is where the roles reverse. I ignored her text, and this is where I'm at right now. 15 hours later, I still haven't responded. *pride restored*

    Keep in mind if she does send a text like the one I just said, she goes back into last stand. Whenever you feel like, you give her one more chance to hold down a convo. I recommend it being a phone call.

    When I do respond (probably tomorrow) I'll send something like this

    Me: No problem .. such is life. I've been busy so I'm just getting to you now. I'll call you tonight at *insert time* then kitty face (pet name)

    If she picks up, great! If not she get's "X'd" off the list.

    That my friends is last stand.

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    Default Re: Last Stand

    I like the Mindset and the methodology with approaching this. After the call what you did was fantastic, and I really like it. My only concern is with your 30% statistic, which tells me that this works seldom with re-hooking the target. I think that may because you were a bit over-demanding with the phone call. It would have easily been diffused a bit with at least a at the end of the text, right after you tell her to make herself available. This makes it more playful, rather than overbearing.

    However, given the amount of information I have found on being able to hook an unresponsive person, this is the only bit I have been able to find yet. Even though its failure rate is high at the moment, I give you props for finding a way to make it work.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Last Stand

    Nice critique! I purposely leave out the wink face in hopes of sounding more commanding. I'm normally fun and playful when texting, but I like it to represent a noticeable change. So when the girl reads it shes like holy crap, this guy isn't playing around (subconsciously of course). I want it to tap more into the Male/Female, I'm alpha so you listen to me kind of thing. I throw in the "once" to further cement that idea of last chance. Btw, don't pay attention at all to the stats. I literally just threw out a number. I've been doing it for awhile now, but I have no idea how much it's actually worked. I didn't want to say a number that would give people too much hope like 70%, and I didn't want to give a number that was too low to make it seem like why even bother trying this. So I just said 30%, which equates to almost about 1/3 girls. In reality, for me it works probably like 60-75% of the time. After that when I do get them on the phone, it's probably more like a 90% success rate because I got pretty decent phone game. Truth be told, the only way it won't work is if the girl has NO interest in you at all, or she's just scared to talk (this has happened to me before).


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