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Thread: hb returning kino

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    Default hb returning kino

    Hey guys quick question. I was on a date with this HB8 super cool chick. Everything went pretty well I built a lot of comfort and things went just great.

    My question refers to Kino. I did quite a lot of social, friendly and a little of romantic kino. I did not k-close because it's a sticking point I have to overcome on dates.

    My question is after doing a considerable amount of kino do hbs return any kino and if they do in want amount or proportion to your kino ? I know it depends on the type of person, but in general most people react similarly.

    The reason why I'm asking this is because I want to find out if she was physically comfortable enough for me to k-close her.

    Thanks for the help.

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    Not sure what the lingo means exactly but by K-close I assume you mean kiss her? Are you really asking for help kissing a girl! Chances are if your feeling it, she is too, its really not a big deal, just go for it, with confidence! If your worried about it, its going to show. Confidence is everything.

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    usually girls will Kino back or even initiate it first if they are really into you, but like you said everyone is different and there is an exception to every rule in the game. Now as long as she is comfortable with you touching her you should be good for K-close, just look her in the eyes then at her lips and lean in for a kiss. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    Well I think that k-closing in the first date is kinda... rushing the flow.

    Anyway, try to lean in to her. To tell her something, for example. To tickle her backneck. To play-fight her. To fucking tickle her body again so much that she has to crumble and laugh.

    If that happens, she's attracted to you. If she doesn't lean back, or doesn't assume a negative position, she's attracted to you.

    Grab your white knight armour dude and march! Best of luck

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    Dude, you should kiss on the first date. Every time. Kissing is just another form of comfort building. Thats right its not some big move its what you do in the early stages, setting up the frame for her to know that you are completely comfortable with kissing. If you are comfortable with kissing what else are you comfortable with? Now to overcome this sticking point try Mystery Methods Kiss Close. Wait for 3 ioi's in the whole conversation. When your both feeling good and she laughing alot or touching you, just wait for the convo to die a little and look and to her eyes and say: Do you want to kiss me? Not completely serious but like your teasing her almost. She either says yes, bam. Not right now, more comfort and later go for it. Or she says no, and you say, I didnt say you could! Teasing her more and moving on. SO. Its good for that fear of kiss rejection because you know the outcomes. Also just remember to not react if she doesnt want to kiss. An alpha male offers the chance and the refusal does not phase him. Back up, conversate and try later.

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    Dude, yesterday I had the opportunity to kiss. Why haven't I kissed the girl? Simply because it was the first time in 3 years I saw the girl.

    Had other dates in which I could have kissed in the first one. However, I preferred to do that in the second one.

    Yesterday's date was fucking amazing, I counted something like 20 IOIs, so much fucking Kino. We walked as boyfriends when it was raining, I showed her I wasn't any affraid of touching. I kissed her hand (some playful stuff. She kissed mine too.). I tickled her so much that she had her head laid down on my legs.

    My point? I showed that I wasn't the least concerned about touching. I showed I was 100% comfortable with it... I showed I fucking powered the fucking interaction, even though all the shit tests she throwed. Moreover, she knew I broke up with my ex-GF a couple of days ago.


    Depending on the situation, kissing in the first date isn't necessary... at least her attraction for you won't depend on that, otherwise many relationships wouldn't be, well, relationships.

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    Its just a goal for me right now. When the kiss close is foreign to people I feel that setting goals will help it not become a big deal.

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    Default Re: hb returning kino

    Putting things in those terms, you're right my friend
    Being prepared to any situation presented to you is the ultimate goal.

    I totally understand your opinion, it makes perfect sense, however I think there are some situations where kissing should be the goal of the 2nd date... building rapport and attraction in the 1st one is my goal.

    Cheers!


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