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    Question [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    Hey guys I am new to this sort of thing, never had a girl friend or go to parties.

    But anyway, I went to a party met a girl from a different girl talked a small but I acted 'jokey' then next day she adds me on Facebook as well as other people in my school (I could tell went under recently added friends on her profile).

    So what should I do?

    I am really bad at talking to girls and I was really bad at talking to her at the party I got introduced to her from one of my friends bit we only talked for like a minute.

    All i want is to have a conversation with her that isn't 'awkward'. It can't be that hard! also, meet her in real life would be amazing.

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    Default Re: [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    It can't be that hard!
    its really not

    cut short, start a private message convo, get that going, get her number, then move to txt or just keep the fb convo going (make sure she has ur number so send 1 txt thats funny) and then state a meet up

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    Default Re: [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    Is this highschool or college?

    I agree with hyp's advice but from the way you wrote your post and the way you say you don't know what to do or had a girlfriend, I'd recommend also to read up a bit on texting game and inner game (specifically inner game).

    You see like you lack a lot of self confidence (and I don't mean this in any mean way whatsoever, I am just stating my observation).

    Here is another side piece of advice, do text her, be cool and funny and confident, but don't take it personally if you get rejected or turned down. It is a part of life. Every single one of us so called experts has gotten turned down before.

    The risks are always going to be there.

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    Default Re: [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    I agree with Mr8Hyde6, from what you're telling us. You show a lack of self confidence. Talking to girls isn't hard at all I'll give a a few pointers in a sec.

    I'll give you a small example.

    I had this girl add me on facebook randomly, I had no clue who she was so I added her and waited a bit, said hi and gave her a compliment on how she tookphotos then she thought I was sarcastic so I called her out on it going like: What.. You don't get much compliments do you xD (I use haha's or xD :P to make them feel im not being a jerk) she responded nice and we got to sexting after I got her number.

    Here's something you should do and avoid doing.

    Do's:

    - Add her and talk to her about anything, topic doesn't matter as long as it isn't boring and we all know boring.
    - Make her laugh so she remembers you as a cool and funny guy.
    - Flirt over facebook, tell her stories about you that she could relate to (If you're in a conversation and you're talking about something she might relate can be great.)

    And get her number, keeping the talking over facebook of texting, kills the relationship trust me on that one, it happend with me so many times. You should get her number and call her.

    If you're talking to her pleeeeeease! don't ask questions like every boring guys would do (Oh cool.. Where do you work, where do you go to school blah blah blah) Girls hate that since you're being some kind of interviewer and its boring as hell. Imagine a kid who comes to you and goes. Why are you mad ? Why ? But why don't you want to.. See its annoying.

    And please I don't want to see you type or talk about yourself like you're bad with girls, you arn't good at making conversations. If you keep that negative thinking you'll start to believe it and women will sense that shit you'll get ejected faster then a jet seat.

    Truuuuust me. Good luck
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    Default Re: [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    yea, the above advice is good so don't underestimate it, i think u just need the first hand experience (y) gl

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    Default Re: [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    So I don't know about whether this is good advice or not, but I would just be myself and tell the girl straight up that I am sort of a shy and awkward character. Most high school and college years are very awkward anyway, and most cool girls would understand.

    But the fake it till you make it thing works too. I told all my practice girls that they were my practice girls and I was trying to get good at game. All except one helped me learn different stages of game, and one even gave me a courtesy blowjob )

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    Default Re: [HELP] Hot girl added me on facebook from party

    You're asking us to have a conversation for you. That's not what we're here for, and it shouldn't be. You have to learn how to talk to girls yourself without help. You'll probably crash and burn the first few times, but that'll make you better. You'll learn what works and what doesn't.

    Be confident, try to make statements instead of questions, and keep the conversation about her. If she stops responding, message her the next day. Don't be clingy.

    How do you keep the conversation focused on her you ask? Should I ask her a bunch of questions about her life and so on, you implore? Well don't worry internet friend, I'll tell you. This is a strategy I learned from the creators of day game and it's a great way to talk to anyone, especially girls. You ask a question, anything at all. Try to make it something they likely aren't asked a lot, in your case I'd suggest something about what you talked about when you met. If that doesn't work, use a status they posted recently. Then when they answer your question, make a statement about it. They'll probably make another statement, then you can ask a question about that statement, they answer, you make a statement, etc. Great way to keep the conversation going.
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