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    Default No contact after good second date

    How do you recommend I act in light of no contact after a good second date. We had made plans for a third date, I messaged her the next day but nothing...

    Nothing now for a couple of days, what do I do next? At the moment I've frozen her out after sending messages on the first day after the date. Should I just keep going until a couple of days before the next date and then message her and talk about the date? Should I message her on Easter Monday night and ask how her weekend was?

    I know it's only a second date, I don't remotely have oneitis but I'd like to know what happened and why she's suddenly flaking on me. It's the point where I would like to know why, that question always bugs my mind, I need to know the answers to questions and life, even if I know that there aren't always answers. Perhaps too is like her to be upfront and honest rather than just cutting me out.

    So what should I be doing next?

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    Default Re: No contact after good second date

    That feeling SUCKS. When a girl won't text back I know its hard to not feel upset. But what you have to do is not let it bother you. Wait a few days, keep the Freeze Out and dont ask about her weekend. Before the date try going for a time change of like fifteen min explaining why you will be late. Its like an indirect way of checking in on her status. Rather than like oh hey are we still going out? Date more girls man and you'll find that the flakey ones aren't for you anyways. Thats the only solution to having any resentment toward girls that don't reply.

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    Default Re: No contact after good second date

    Thanks for the quick reply.

    I can't rearrange the time though, it's not fixed, only the day and the location have been agreed. Do you think that I should suggest a time by saying, 'I'd like to meet you at x o'clock, if that's good for you?' Etc. ?

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    Default Re: No contact after good second date

    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-o View Post
    Thanks for the quick reply.

    I can't rearrange the time though, it's not fixed, only the day and the location have been agreed. Do you think that I should suggest a time by saying, 'I'd like to meet you at x o'clock, if that's good for you?' Etc. ?
    Where is the location and what are the plans. I just thought of this: Give her a reason why one time would be best. Like Oh we have to meet before 11 because thats when my favorite coffee shop closes. Or like one gorl I dated I said lets meet around mid day I want to get some some/a tan. Lol so think about your date and a great reason to meet at whatever time works for you. If its interesting it will also work as a hook for her interest making her want to reply. Let me know what you think of.

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    Default Re: No contact after good second date

    Mailed you the details, I like the idea in principle.


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