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    jackmystery is offline Aspiring PUA Forums
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    Default The girl is in another city

    I met her online 4 months ago. She lives in another city. If I visit her city, she is willing to meet me. But it seems that she is not willing to come to my city to meet me. I am not willing to go to her city to meet her because it costs me time and money. How can I proceed?

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    Default Re: The girl is in another city

    Can you suggest a middle location? See how things go and then take it from there?

    Also 4 months and you haven't met? Had this distance been the issue the whole time? You need to be wary not to turn this in to a text friend only. You could run out of things to chat about before you even see each other.

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    Default Re: The girl is in another city

    Another solution is that I can continue to dhv and create a greater attraction so she will be willing to see me in my city, but I think it is difficult to achieve and will cost a lot of effort when achieved.

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    Default Re: The girl is in another city

    You've taken four months to get where you are now. You can't develop oneitis for a woman you've never met. You might meet each other and the spark might not be there, in which case you've wasted however long it takes to get from here until she meets you. Plus, I'm sure she knows what you're about, you must have used dhv tactics already.

    Up to you, of course, and I know how easy it is to get hooked on an idea of how you think things could be between the pair of you. But you need to not waste time, otherwise you're missing out on a whole lot of other 'ideas' which can be realised and which may potentially be better than the idea which you're currently nurturing.


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