Very valid point but I see girls w/BFs there all the time and met tons of people who got together in the club.
But it seems like the girls I meet there ain't looking for a relationship but i feel like I am getting better at interacting.
I just need to be more keen when they are this horny again. I guess I thought hook ups there were impossible but this chick made it so easy therefore it's definitely my first failed f-close. I could have been with her now had I transitioned and handled the logistics.
But yeah definitely some women don't want the pull when I get failed k-closes. I'll try to remember that I just never thought I would be put in that position now I know.