Okay guys I just found this new GF last night and hit it off with her super well. You'll see why I am calling her my GF but for now I just wanted to mention I met this girl at the Club the other night as I just posted about our interaction in the Pick up field report section. I have had a lot of time to practice and gotten a lot of #'s since I got in the game.
Doing the Same Thing Expecting Different Results
I usually dink around with women, beat around the bush, and play the nice guy card hoping not to offend them so they like me. This is major Beta behavior but for some odd reason I have not been acting like this with this one. My main problem is I just send out 1 or 2 texts that are very needy introducing myself the day after telling them my name, how it was nice to meet them, or whatever. I remember even one time I texted a girl 7 times and never got a response till I called. So since last night since I was on top of my game I couldn't do anything wrong and it showed in the results I am getting.
So I usually try to get a girl to like me first before I start showing signs of interest (Wrong! AFC like behavior) but now what I am doing differently is just assuming she likes me, is interested, and acting accordingly.
My Current Texting Strategy
My concept is to usually wait till next day to text and contact but I still have this understanding in the back of my mind that "chicks live in the moment" and I have to act with purpose and intention and act quick! The reason I say this is because women I have been texting can easily jump into a relationship in the matter of 1-2 weeks after meeting them and I take too long in trying to get their compliance. Well I have been going for this new woman's compliance since day 1 over text and it helped set my frame and get my priorities in check. This woman is extremely hard to game by the way, she goes Hot & Cold on me since the day I met her and plays hard to get on me big time!
I texted this new one 10-20 min right after I met her, why? Because I was super into her and she was super into me so I didn't want to waste any time and here's how it went.
ME: Hey it was fun making out with you baby
HER: No Response
ME: Hey let me know if you want me to take you home -Mackdaddyjon
HER: No Response
ME: Hey I am upstairs on the couch. Come back to your boy if want to chase me
HER: No Response
ME: Hey can't find you anywhere GF. Where is home at? I will come help you recover with my
dashing smile and debonair charm. I want you as my new GF, end of story!
HER: In home fine
ME: Baby text me the address I miss you
HER: No Response
(next day @ 7 AM I get this text, man I love the smell of fresh game in the morning!)
HER: I'm sorry I ditched you. I had to take a cab.
(I was kinda mad she woke me up and wanted to ignore her but again chicks live in the moment so
she wanted to talk so we talked)
ME: Baby I just want us to have fun together. Give me your address and I'll forgive you. I'll come over later today.
Her: Hey it's hectic today, got stuff going on. Send me a photo of you.
ME: That's okay but I still need your address so I can come see you. Send a photo of yourself first and I'll send you
HER: Sends me a photo of herself (man she is looking good!)
ME: Okay I'll send my pic as soon as I get your address you gotta make it easier for me.
HER: No response
(knowing this would piss her off and that actions speak louder than words I did the following)
ME: Sends photo
That's where we ended it but I have never had a girl initiate me the next day! I didn't want to lose her that's why I am escalating so quickly from the get go. I was asking her for her address over and over because I told her in set that she just wanted to fark me and she gave me the look of approval which gave me the green light plus we made out when she was trying to make the moves on me. I might try freezing her out for a little bit not sure since she asked for space I'll give her space not try to smother her.
On a side note it's awesome that she was being so submissive when she texted me as that was a major turn on. I hate playing mind games anymore and haven't been playing any so far. Women usually will play mind games with me if I start playing it with them. So I am very direct with her and matter of fact. I knew my texting game sucked partly due to the poor sets I was having so I worked on improving my game in set and that helped me build confidence for contacting over text.
Also I might want to add that I wasn't trying too hard all night. I saw this girl upstairs acting all weird, like stretching grabbing the wall or something and didn't even make a move. I literally just walked away thinking she was like hammered. I then saw her shortly after come outside to the smoking area as I was standing outside by the entrance outside. She sat down and I made a move and sat far away from her then after a few seconds of trying not too make it too obvious I was hitting on her I slide over and had like a super long interaction and now we're hitting it off!
I'll post more about texting this new girl after the possible Freeze Out I might do. By the way she is not technically my GF yet I am just framing it that way as it is helping my game for right now. But she gave me no objection when I started calling her that and she even has already started to act like my GF. So I know it will take a little bit more work before I can take the next step.