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Thread: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

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    Default My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    Okay guys I just found this new GF last night and hit it off with her super well. You'll see why I am calling her my GF but for now I just wanted to mention I met this girl at the Club the other night as I just posted about our interaction in the Pick up field report section. I have had a lot of time to practice and gotten a lot of #'s since I got in the game.

    Doing the Same Thing Expecting Different Results
    I usually dink around with women, beat around the bush, and play the nice guy card hoping not to offend them so they like me. This is major Beta behavior but for some odd reason I have not been acting like this with this one. My main problem is I just send out 1 or 2 texts that are very needy introducing myself the day after telling them my name, how it was nice to meet them, or whatever. I remember even one time I texted a girl 7 times and never got a response till I called. So since last night since I was on top of my game I couldn't do anything wrong and it showed in the results I am getting.

    So I usually try to get a girl to like me first before I start showing signs of interest (Wrong! AFC like behavior) but now what I am doing differently is just assuming she likes me, is interested, and acting accordingly.

    My Current Texting Strategy
    My concept is to usually wait till next day to text and contact but I still have this understanding in the back of my mind that "chicks live in the moment" and I have to act with purpose and intention and act quick! The reason I say this is because women I have been texting can easily jump into a relationship in the matter of 1-2 weeks after meeting them and I take too long in trying to get their compliance. Well I have been going for this new woman's compliance since day 1 over text and it helped set my frame and get my priorities in check. This woman is extremely hard to game by the way, she goes Hot & Cold on me since the day I met her and plays hard to get on me big time!

    I texted this new one 10-20 min right after I met her, why? Because I was super into her and she was super into me so I didn't want to waste any time and here's how it went.

    ME: Hey it was fun making out with you baby
    HER: No Response
    ME: Hey let me know if you want me to take you home -Mackdaddyjon
    HER: No Response
    ME: Hey I am upstairs on the couch. Come back to your boy if want to chase me
    HER: No Response
    ME: Hey can't find you anywhere GF. Where is home at? I will come help you recover with my
    dashing smile and debonair charm. I want you as my new GF, end of story!
    HER: In home fine
    ME: Baby text me the address I miss you
    HER: No Response
    (next day @ 7 AM I get this text, man I love the smell of fresh game in the morning!)
    HER: I'm sorry I ditched you. I had to take a cab.
    (I was kinda mad she woke me up and wanted to ignore her but again chicks live in the moment so
    she wanted to talk so we talked)
    ME: Baby I just want us to have fun together. Give me your address and I'll forgive you. I'll come over later today.
    Her: Hey it's hectic today, got stuff going on. Send me a photo of you.
    ME: That's okay but I still need your address so I can come see you. Send a photo of yourself first and I'll send you
    mine.
    HER: Sends me a photo of herself (man she is looking good!)
    ME: Okay I'll send my pic as soon as I get your address you gotta make it easier for me.
    HER: No response
    (knowing this would piss her off and that actions speak louder than words I did the following)
    ME: Sends photo

    That's where we ended it but I have never had a girl initiate me the next day! I didn't want to lose her that's why I am escalating so quickly from the get go. I was asking her for her address over and over because I told her in set that she just wanted to fark me and she gave me the look of approval which gave me the green light plus we made out when she was trying to make the moves on me. I might try freezing her out for a little bit not sure since she asked for space I'll give her space not try to smother her.

    On a side note it's awesome that she was being so submissive when she texted me as that was a major turn on. I hate playing mind games anymore and haven't been playing any so far. Women usually will play mind games with me if I start playing it with them. So I am very direct with her and matter of fact. I knew my texting game sucked partly due to the poor sets I was having so I worked on improving my game in set and that helped me build confidence for contacting over text.

    Also I might want to add that I wasn't trying too hard all night. I saw this girl upstairs acting all weird, like stretching grabbing the wall or something and didn't even make a move. I literally just walked away thinking she was like hammered. I then saw her shortly after come outside to the smoking area as I was standing outside by the entrance outside. She sat down and I made a move and sat far away from her then after a few seconds of trying not too make it too obvious I was hitting on her I slide over and had like a super long interaction and now we're hitting it off!

    I'll post more about texting this new girl after the possible Freeze Out I might do. By the way she is not technically my GF yet I am just framing it that way as it is helping my game for right now. But she gave me no objection when I started calling her that and she even has already started to act like my GF. So I know it will take a little bit more work before I can take the next step.

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    I'll give you my critique. It may not sound too pretty though. First and foremost, you don't sound alpha in the text, but you don't sound beta either. You're somewhere in between. You're coming off as someone whose attempting to mask beta with alpha, but ultimately submitting to the beta. You sent wayyyy too many texts initially which comes off as very needy. You got her, made out with her, now relax. Let her breathe and take in what happen. Send maybe one text to try and meet up again, not 4. On top of that you told her you missed her... Cmon son how many hours passed from when you guys first met... 8? Girls may live in the moment, but I'm the one who defines when the moment is. Don't farking call me at 6:00 in the morning unless you're my girlfriend.

    Moving on to the next point. You may have gotten the look of approval when you said that you guys were going to fark, but the thing is, you guys didn't fark. It's a new day with a whole new set of emotions (for girls). Now I commend you for pushing for the address, but that can come off as very needy (unless played right, which it wasn't) and puts all the power in her hands. You should have enough confidence that you'll know you'll see her again so you don't have to push for the address at farking 6:00 in the got damn morning. If you want my honest opinion it sounds like she was drunk and forgot what you looked like so she wanted to see who she was fooling with. If this doesn't go anywhere, these points I made are the reasons why.

    In summary:
    -Wayyyy to needy
    -Beta masked in alpha that ended up still being beta

    Ultimately, this is just a critique. There is really no right and wrong in gaming. What works for one guy may not work for another. I'm just pointing out what I deem to be flaws so you can either take it or leave it. This all may come off as harsh, but that's because I just want to scare you into not making these mistakes again. You may get the girl, who knows? But from a standpoint of critiquing, it was nothing short of atrocious.

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    Listen to that mans critique. I'm sorry, I kind of cringed at your texting. All her no responses should be telling you that that conversation did not go well.

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    I agree with Lilsting and SCguitar in that you have displayed neediness and plus you have become a p_$$y beggar. I'm afraid that if you continue down your current path you are history and will end up in the friendzone as thay say. Women can smell neediness and desperation a mile away and she caught a whiff of yours and that is why she is either slow to respond or doesn't respond at all. Act like you don't care about hooking up and reread about being an alpha male to strengthen your game you maybe surprised at the results. Good luck mack

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    also one thing you should've taken into account was that:

    1. you met her in a club --> hookups are bound to happen
    2. you're most likely not one of the first hookups of hers (so it wont be special to her like its appearing to you)
    3. that opener wasnt successful because of #2

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    To be honest mate, Iv read your field report of this pick up and it wasn't a particularly solid close in my opinion, it seemed like she was very drunk and made out with you just because you persisted, which fair play you got the make out, but I don't think the close was particularly solid and that's why the texting ain't going brilliantly, compounded with the fact of the too many texts without a response and the continued use of 'baby' :/ sorry bro, I mean keep trying and ya might get somewhere but don't get hung up on her

    Linking x

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    Thank you guys for the stone cold truth it prepared me for a super hard rejection I just got from her this morning.

    I froze her out for 1 day and she flipped her lid, said she was seeing someone, didn't remember me, and said she was too hammered to remember anything though she texted me that following morning.

    I didn't see it coming, wow! What a letdown. Got to get better at this. Why do you guys think a Freeze Out freaked her out or maybe it was something I said. It was probably too much too soon and she bailed to hook up with her Ex. Gosh I feel like such a sucker.

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    It's my bad guys. When I first saw her I knew she was too much to handle, super hammered, and a tease. She wanted to fark and because I did my first k-close I got too excited and then started acting needy.

    She said she wanted to "go home" my perfect opportunity to take her home but again I was being a little boy and need to start acting like a man. I realize now that I blew it big time.

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    u'll find alot of this in clubs, so don't beat urself up but rather be prepared for it

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    Default Re: My texting strategy for this new HB9+ and why it's working

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjon View Post
    It's my bad guys. When I first saw her I knew she was too much to handle, super hammered, and a tease. She wanted to fark and because I did my first k-close I got too excited and then started acting needy.

    She said she wanted to "go home" my perfect opportunity to take her home but again I was being a little boy and need to start acting like a man. I realize now that I blew it big time.
    Don't be yourself up. As you go out, you'll learn girls basically want one-nighters at clubs and parties. They aren't looking for a long-term boyfriend. Can that happen? Yes, but you shouldn't be trying to find your soul mate at a club.

    I get a little carried away too when I k-close at parties. I immediately think I can pull. But you still gotta be the one to stop, escalate some more, talk a little. The game isn't over when you k-close, it's just beginning.


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