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    Default Re: Calling didn't work so well...

    I'd suggest you wait first about 1 week or 2, keep picking up girls and if you do then do your stuff, if not then give her a quick text to see what's up.

    Now before you do any of that, did you know the girl you've met ? Or did you just get to meet her quickly, because barely getting to know someone and then texting them, gets dull real quick unless they actually have interest in you. If they arn't interested, they won't care. If she would be interested in you she would be texting you. Thats why face to face interaction is the way to go.
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    Default Re: Calling didn't work so well...

    Quote Originally Posted by OhSnap View Post
    Don't do it no more.. Keep it natural seriously. There is no book in the work or method basicly NOTHING that will be step by step intsruction jibber jabber that will get you anywhere when it comes to girls. Its a human being not an Ikea desk. You need experience and you gain it with Errors and successes, learn from this. Examine what you've done wrong and fix it. Don't sob about it or you wont go anywhere
    The is no book or method basically.....pretty much. You can follow your own custom method...be ontop of things officially then have them drop off and not respond...best response? NO RESPONSE!

    I use my common example of a few girls who were like this and I literally had to venture outside the realm of commonality and logic to make progress. At one point I even deleted one of the girls numbers since they were being difficult like that....what happened you ask? They ended up calling me back several days later wanting to meet back up where we last left off..there after had several dates and furthermore Id put the stamp of success on it. What was the solution? Taking my effort from about 80% and turning it down to 0%......from chasing to putting the car in the garage and parking it. But by no means was there a book, method, or even experience from others that I couldve used at the time...you cant force things to happen.

    Overall I could say, dont force it..dont double text/call if theres no response....just let it ride as is. As well it shows something about your mentality. IDK how many females ive heard complaining about guys being creepy in the initial stages. Have a brief conversation or a brief coffee meetup (not even what id call a casual date) and next day the guy is blowing up their phone like they are husband/wife. See how they view these situations when the guy is too eager..they dont like it and are on alert marking such actions with red flags.

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    Default Re: Calling didn't work so well...

    So you prob already messed up with this girl but for the experience why not keep going?
    Wait at least one full day then text next day , so i guess 2 days technically. Send her something non committal like " I love orange" or "Not now, im busy!"

    Then you want to vibe on that thread for 2 or 3 texts then drop it as in dont reply

    Then wait a few more hours and tell her some funny thing happened at the gym today , i only have a minute but can you talk?

    if she says yes call.
    good luck


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