So I met this Romanian chic and got her number. Following a few rules I came across about texting game from books like "the text and Phone Game' . I initiated a conversation with a quirky message on first day. her whatsapp pic was a cat and I started chatting about her cat and from there here favorite painter and stuff.
Here I made first mistake, I didn't break rapport when the conversation was at a high point and unfortunately I guess she got bored and did not reply to one of my messages.
So on day two i thought I'd try new game - Send her a question msg and follow by calling her up. If she replies to question means she is not busy and will pick up call.
Well i sent her a message - do you have a twin sister.. boom she replied no..i don't...
so i called her in 5 minutes.. no reply. called again ..no reply.
ME: i see someone similar to you.
she msgs- why did you call.
Me: to check if that person is you. I didn't freak you out ..did I.
Me: Hows your cat.
So i didn't msg her anymore to maintain my value.
Now the way I see it , this textbook approach I used from book , how can I improve this , because I do believe having a voice call is way more effective than txts and I had a good conversation going with this chic before.
May be i should have send her a msg before calling saying- "hold on, will call u in 2 min", so i don't freak her out completely.
Or may be next time I should call next day itself.
Or may be should have kept messaging for few more days , though i think the more days its texting the more it kills chances of a date.
Also can you suggest anyways to restart texting her without coming across desperate. Like msging - " So are you still ignoring me". Or send her a msg like nothing happened before.
What do you guys think, what went wrong and what can be done better next time.Suggestions guys.