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    lastviking is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So I got her number... now what/when should I text her

    Greetings from Sweden, with my first post.

    I spent several hours on the forums today, and decided to use various tips on a gal I found on Badoo. To my happy surprise it worked out really well and I just got her number on the first day/try - with some hard work of course

    Now, I'm just stressed out what to do next. I mean, should I send her a sms tomorrow already or wait a day or two??

    I don't want to look like if I'm desperate, but then again, I guess that depends on what I'm texting her. I get the feeling that if I wait too long some other dude will "rob" me of her.

    Any thumb rules in this matter? Perhaps I should text her now??


    Lovely site, keep up the good work guys!

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    scguitar is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: So I got her number... now what/when should I text her

    Rule of thumb, always send the text within 5 to 10 minutes of meeting her. Over time, attraction will die down from the first meeting, so you need to contact her while the attraction is still high

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    Dave-o is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: So I got her number... now what/when should I text her

    I often just text their number and say 'hey, it's Dave'....that initiates contact, gives them your number and you've been talking previous to the number exchange so you don't necessarily need a smart line. I usually text quite quickly after being told the number, that say you take the online chat to the texting and progress from there.

    Once you get their number, you should meet easy enough. Their is interest in meeting, that's why you have her number I'd assume. Just text for a short while and then ask her if she wants to meet. You can suggest an event for the date and take it from there.

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    urbancowboy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: So I got her number... now what/when should I text her

    Quote Originally Posted by lastviking View Post
    Greetings from Sweden, with my first post.

    I spent several hours on the forums today, and decided to use various tips on a gal I found on Badoo. To my happy surprise it worked out really well and I just got her number on the first day/try - with some hard work of course

    Now, I'm just stressed out what to do next. I mean, should I send her a sms tomorrow already or wait a day or two??

    I don't want to look like if I'm desperate, but then again, I guess that depends on what I'm texting her. I get the feeling that if I wait too long some other dude will "rob" me of her.

    Any thumb rules in this matter? Perhaps I should text her now??


    Lovely site, keep up the good work guys!
    Go look up GunsNGlorys Ultimate Texting Guide. It's brilliant and will help your text game massively.

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    scguitar is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: So I got her number... now what/when should I text her

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    Go look up GunsNGlorys Ultimate Texting Guide. It's brilliant and will help your text game massively.
    To add on to that, you should buy Artisan's ultimate texting guide. It's absolutely worth it since texting is becoming so mainstream. Learning texting game is almost vital and his guide is amazing and full of tips and examples. It's well organized too

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    lastviking is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: So I got her number... now what/when should I text her

    Thanks guys, it happened to be that she messaged me on Badoo just after I wrote my post, and asked me to keep our conversation on sms. Naturally I then texted her, so some luck there lol, since we kept going half the night.
    Preparing to ask her today to hook up with me in the week.

    Anyway, till next time I'll use your advice


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