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Thread: First post - how long should I freeze her out?

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    Default First post - how long should I freeze her out?

    Hello everyone! I've been creeping the forums for a while but I am started to get more involved with a fair share of women and decided to make an account so that I can become a true pua!

    Anyways, I have this HB9 that I met on tinder(Iphone App) and last weekend we met up at a club, got some drinks, and danced for a few songs. Ended up only getting a # close when I was rushed to leave by friends. I invited her to my friends show last night and she ended up flaking because her roommate bailed(she didn't want to come alone). I replied with "No biggie, maybe next time" and got back a "Hopefully!" and now I'm at a loss on how long I should freeze her out for. Part of me wants to get to know this girl and build comfort by texting her throughout the week then invite her to some parties planned this weekend but I feel like I might come off needy. Is this whole building comfort Mindset I have a bad idea?

    Any advice is appreciated

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    Default Re: First post - how long should I freeze her out?

    As long as you are inviting her to something social, you won't come off as needy. Just remember to word it correctly and make it seem like she's invited, but not like you are inviting her. Go ahead and invite her to the parties.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: First post - how long should I freeze her out?

    Thanks for the reply.

    Sounds good would you recommend talking to her throughout the week before the parties?

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    Default Re: First post - how long should I freeze her out?

    Yes!
    Don't freeze a girl out if she's responding & expressing interest in getting together again if the original idea falls apart.

    And always keep communication going during the days leading up to the get together. That gives you the opportunity to flirt & build more attraction & anticipation.

    Otherwise, if you wait until a day before the "date" she may have lost the attraction that was there in the beginning.

    Remember this: "ABF".... (Always Be Flirting!!")


    That means you have to keep the interaction going & keep it fresh, fun & exciting.


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    Default Re: First post - how long should I freeze her out?

    Just found this, Tinder is an amazing app haha. Any tips for converting a match to a meetup? I can get a playful/flirty banter going no problem but it seems like converting that or even a number to a meetup is where I tend to hit a wall.


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