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Thread: Just realised I dont know what to do

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    Default Just realised I dont know what to do

    Maybe this should be under online dating.. Anyway...

    I had a great sms-dialogue with this girl yesterday, whom I've not met yet, and I decided to be the one that ended it for the night. So my last message went something like:

    "Hey girl, nice talking to you, but I really should put my ass to sleep. You should tell me tomorrow whether you had those nasty dreams or not. Sweet dreams!" (she had told me she was going to have these horror dreams about rabbits, since I had earlier joked about me killing the ones outside my appartment lollolol)

    After I wrote this, she answered:
    "hahahaaa I'll do that! *picture of a kissing mouth*"

    I did not reply to this, and now after 22 hours I'm starting to ask myself if I should text her or not - I really feel like she's interested, but then again, I dont want to screw things up by feeling needy. I mean, even though it might not mean a sh1t, she told me she would return to me today about her dreams blabla. I'm really confused.

    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Just realised I dont know what to do

    She's waiting for you to text her. Get to it, but try to get her to meet you:

    "Hey, missy! I think you owe me a dream or two! How about you tell me over lunch/coffee/karaoke/skydiving/etc?"

    Work your magic from there!
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Just realised I dont know what to do

    You can absolutely express interest without coming across as needy.

    Just flirt with her...

    Guys tend to get freaked out about letting a girl know they're interested, but that's a mistake.
    If you DON'T, she'll think you're not interested, and/or you'll likely end up in the friend zone.

    22 hours is a long time to wait, if she's been receptive & the interaction has been going well.
    (You don't want things to stall out & get stale or cold.)


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    Default Re: Just realised I dont know what to do

    wow thanks for fast replies, I'm off to "work"

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    Default Re: Just realised I dont know what to do

    Eh, layoff is not that bad. I put off talking to this one girl for over a week In my first convo back she mentioned how she wanted to snuggle w/ me.

    Think Alpha about it. You dont NEED to talk to her. Work under the impression talking to you is the highlight of her day

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    Default Re: Just realised I dont know what to do

    Agreed with Swish. Don't be at her beck and call, but don't ignore her either. By not responding to and trying to talk to her every day, you are showing that you have a life that takes precedence before her.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Just realised I dont know what to do

    Yep, and if it's any consolation....I havent a FREAKIN clue what I am doing. I got so much respect for the texting gurus of this board. Yall doin gods work


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