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    Default Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    I went out with a girl on a date and it went quite well, and I think she agreed. I asked her if she would like to go out one night this week. She said she couldn't but maybe the week after instead. We both like to smoke and we are thinking of going to a hookah bar for our next date.

    The next day, Sunday, I sent her a text saying "Hey cutie pie. How is Anna doing after a fun night like last night."

    She never responded. It is now Tuesday and I don't know what to do.

    What should I do now?

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    Default Re: Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    I'd say wait 1/2 days more and then text her again with something flirty and funny. If she answers I'd say good, otherwise leave it mate.

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    but what type of funny line? I know she likes the rocky movies, maybe should I refer to that?

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    Default Re: Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    Did you give her a nickname? If not, make up one
    Read this

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

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    Default Re: Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    I am a big next day texter after a good date.

    I never really had a problem with a girl though not texting me back. Maybe when I was 18. but recently, no.

    There could be many reasons why she didn't.
    1) (i know it will sound harsh, but we all know PUA can be harsh) she wasn't that interested in you and she just was being nice
    2) she has just been busy. I know a lot of girls that literally get 100 texts from their friends and your text might of gotten lost in the mix

    I wouldn't say give up now... I agree, send her another funny text, jokingly, give her a little nickname.

    But... I have a thing about girls "flaking"... If a girl flakes and doesn't offer another day, she may not be into you.. Also, be more direct. I wouldn't of asked that same night to hang out again, but maybe 2 days from that date I would of said something like, "Me + u + (name of bar on ________day) = fun time... dress to impress"

    Girls like direct and a man in control. Shows them you don't care one way or the other and that you can take initiative.

    If you ask a girl, you leave her room to have the possibility of no... If you tell, she is less likely to be inclined to turn things down. Girls find it sexy.

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    Default Re: Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    when I said "Cutie Pie" I thought that was a nickname. Maybe I should have come up with a better one?

    I've always been able to do good on a date. However, I always sucked afterwards because I never know how to follow up.

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    Default Re: Texting after good first date, but no response, what do I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr8Hyde6 View Post
    I am a big next day texter after a good date.

    I never really had a problem with a girl though not texting me back. Maybe when I was 18. but recently, no.

    There could be many reasons why she didn't.
    1) (i know it will sound harsh, but we all know PUA can be harsh) she wasn't that interested in you and she just was being nice
    2) she has just been busy. I know a lot of girls that literally get 100 texts from their friends and your text might of gotten lost in the mix

    I wouldn't say give up now... I agree, send her another funny text, jokingly, give her a little nickname.

    But... I have a thing about girls "flaking"... If a girl flakes and doesn't offer another day, she may not be into you.. Also, be more direct. I wouldn't of asked that same night to hang out again, but maybe 2 days from that date I would of said something like, "Me + u + (name of bar on ________day) = fun time... dress to impress"

    Girls like direct and a man in control. Shows them you don't care one way or the other and that you can take initiative.

    If you ask a girl, you leave her room to have the possibility of no... If you tell, she is less likely to be inclined to turn things down. Girls find it sexy.
    Those are all good ideas.
    After I go out on a first date if I think it went well then I like to ask about a 2nd date while on that first date.

    The idea of me + u, that's not a bad idea.

    Lastly, the thing i've always had trouble with is texting after a good date. Text messaging is probably my biggest weakness of all.


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