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    Default Handling Objections over Text

    Not sure what to do with this but maybe you guys can help me. So I have been noticing a pattern recently in the HB's I am gaming after I get their #. Here's the rundown.

    Handling Objections over Text
    This is the best way I can describe it but I keep getting these type of objections over text. I either do the Mr. Nice Guy approach, The bad boy approach, or just act AFC. Not really sure but here's what happens I mean maybe it means I am done at this
    point? You tell me.


    EXAMPLE: (real world)

    GIRL #1
    ME: Hey baby I haven't forgotten about you and I still want you very bad! ~~From your new man
    HB9: Hey listen (never good) Umm I already have a man (fitness test?) and a kid. Maybe I
    forgot to tell you that.
    ME: AFC AFC AFC
    HB9: Rejection, rejection, rejection
    (not sure if I could have salvaged this)

    GIRL #2
    HB9: Umm I have a BF and I have been dating him for 7 months
    ME: That's not what you said last night HAHA
    HB9: Well I never said I did or didn't
    ME: When we talked you were acting available and you agreed I could take you out
    HB9: I never said that
    ME: AFC AFC AFC

    GIRL #3
    ME: Hey if being fun was illegal I would arrest you
    HB6: No Response
    ME: Okay no cookie for you
    HB6: You are farking weird I have a BF
    ME: AFC AFC AFC
    HB6: Fark off

    Not sure if I could have salvaged these situations had I been more Alpha. Is there any way to salvage
    after getting the BF objection? Let me know some ideas or examples.

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    Default Re: Handling Objections over Text

    Oh I like this.

    1st situation.
    Possible answers:
    "You're already telling me your problems with Mickey Mouse and we know each other for like x hours! Our texting partnership is over now Miss Daisy! ahahah"
    "Great, I have a gay dog" procceed.
    "A challenge? I like it " - to be tested. I guess this works better live, because of body language and the amount of self confidence you need to pull this out.

    2nd situation:
    Mate, all of your 3 texts were AFC to me.
    IMO:
    "Yeah, having a boyfriend is so good, hein? My boyfriend holds me in his arms when we watch ET the Extra-terrestrial... " You can extend this and neg her... it will depend on your will

    3rd situation:
    "Hey, if being fun was taxed, you would be the richest person I know ahahah" though I don't like this kind of opener :P
    Same answer (from 1st situation) to her "I have a bf blah blah" reply.

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    Default Re: Handling Objections over Text

    I know the feeling. I get a number and start the text game and it's so annoying because it never ends. I find if I try to close the deal, like get a date or try to meet her or whatever, the whole thing comes to a halt. They seem to want to drag it out for like two weeks.

    Two weeks. I have found, if I can play text game for two weeks, I end up hooking up with her.

    Two weeks of text game. During this time, I'll call maybe a few times, get no answer, but eventually talk.

    I think this is Comfort Building mode for them. They want to feel OK with me being around them via text and occasional phone calls. Then whammo, one day, they agree to meet.

    I have two girls I'm doing that with right now. A few silly playful texts every day or every other day. I have no idea what will happen. But they respond and there's a dialogue going on. I neg and tease and get serious and ask about their life.

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    Default Re: Handling Objections over Text

    Quote Originally Posted by Rez View Post
    I know the feeling. I get a number and start the text game and it's so annoying because it never ends. I find if I try to close the deal, like get a date or try to meet her or whatever, the whole thing comes to a halt. They seem to want to drag it out for like two weeks.

    Two weeks. I have found, if I can play text game for two weeks, I end up hooking up with her.

    Two weeks of text game. During this time, I'll call maybe a few times, get no answer, but eventually talk.

    I think this is Comfort Building mode for them. They want to feel OK with me being around them via text and occasional phone calls. Then whammo, one day, they agree to meet.

    I have two girls I'm doing that with right now. A few silly playful texts every day or every other day. I have no idea what will happen. But they respond and there's a dialogue going on. I neg and tease and get serious and ask about their life.

    Wow! Sounds like we have something we both agree on. I have the exact same thing happen all the time! I was thinking the same thing just didn't bring it up.

    So basically after 2 weeks the Girl will bring up a BF at that point or before that if I fail her fitness tests. But yeah I noticed whenever I go for the meet up shortly after meeting them they get all psyched out and bring out the BF card.

    Good to have that understanding now I will try to act accordignly knowing I don't have to ask them out right away as this will help take some of the social pressure off me right away.

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    Default Re: Handling Objections over Text

    My big query with the 2-week text thing is How to Create Comfort, C1, via Text or Email?

    I get the number, do the text, do A1-3, get the attracting and dialogue going, but still can't get the meet up, so I have to create Comfort virtually. I'm actually in the process of doing that now with a few girls. Creating Comfort virtually, with the idea of getting a meet-up, date. I may start a thread about this.


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