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    Default Re: Help texting girl from POF - what happened?

    Simply talk to other girl. Think about abundance of offers.
    Be teasing and flirty, avoid answering all her questions. When you answer, do it in a playful way, etc.

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    Default Re: Help texting girl from POF - what happened?

    here is another fail from me, i was going through this with a friend and I will show you his response and my response and I want to see with the PUA community who was right

    So asian girl (im asian) and she clicked on my profile, so she didn't mind my profile and picture ok good so far.

    her profile in quotes
    About Me
    I love going out. I like to chill, watch tv. I am a big time CFL fan. Go tigercats!!! Black and yellow baby. Don't be shy and message me What else can I say. I have some fun here and there but I have grown up hahah. Drop me a chat line
    Then I decided to text her first:

    (I wanted to say)

    me: I may not know jack about CFL or them so called tigercats, but this black hair and yellow skin sure ain't shy Why don't we screw the fun here and there and do grown up things that are exciting instead?

    instead my buddy told me to say, "Hmm you should remove that picture.."

    (of course I didn't believe I would get a reply over mine so I bet him $2 on his reply vs mine I sent it and literally 30 seconds later she sent me a reply so there's -$2 for me)

    Her: why

    I was shocked but I had to keep my game going so I wanted to send

    me: because if you don't, i will keep staring at it and won't be able to sleep

    but instead he wanted me to send:

    me: haha nah im playing, i just wanted to get your attention so i can say hi

    which i disagreed with because it was like making an extreme joke then apologizing for it which makes you a wussy. He claims his will get a response so we bet another $1

    so I send the "safe but wussy" message (after like 15 mins with arguing back and forth with my friend what to send) and literally 10 seconds later she replies with

    her: oh ok

    at this point we were both omg the dead radio silence response plus im minus 3 dollars in the hole. I was more pissed about the dead radio silence rather than the money since I was wondering if my replies would have been more effective, and my friend too was dead in his tracks. I'm like its game over and he goes here send this.. I'm like ok bet $1 and sends after 10 minutes of debate.

    me: so what do u like to do for fun?

    this time 30 seconds later she replies

    her: SHOPPING!

    I'm like wtf? We have totally nothing to work with here... but right off the bad I wanted to say
    haha oh yeah? So what else is new in the world of a girl? Tell you what if I were to go shopping for some Tigercats jerseys or some fanboy sh1t, would you know where to take me?
    he decided to give me a freebie because he thought the above response was going to fail so bad and gave me one response with no money involved since he was going to bed after....

    ME: hahah typical.. u always this basic?

    I sent my friend zero dollars for that one, he went to bed, she did not reply and I end up drinking my beer.

    FML

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    Default Re: Help texting girl from POF - what happened?

    That's why you should trust your gut my friend. Trusting in what others say, especially those who seem to be very incapable of attracting woman, is like holding a fireball, it will fuck you up.

    Rule of thumb/note to self: trust your gut
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    Default Re: Help texting girl from POF - what happened?

    Quote Originally Posted by vap3 View Post
    Hey guys dont mean to hijack this thread but a girl opened to me on pof and I wanted to know what I did wrong.

    My first impression was perhaps she is too good to be true since she has attractive and wanted something casual. But here is the text she sent me

    Her: heyy (her pictures were atrached)

    Me: Hi?

    2 min later I texted back

    Me: if I didnt know any better, you would win in a modelling contest but I would win in a ufc contest judging by your name (athletic girl18)

    Her: haha you think so?

    Me: only bruce buffer can decide the outcome but i promise it will be an interesting matchup for sure! What are you up to right now? Is pof that bumpin right now? (1230 am)

    Her: it really is lol

    Me : haha I can believe that, I mean look at those jeans (refering to one picture of her stretching her legs with her jeans) they need to invent a size below skinny lulz

    Dead radio silence, I cant believe I blew that when she opened ME ; (

    What happened is that you built no attraction and started commenting on her looks! As a rule, do not compliment a girls looks on pof, your going for her personality. Every other idiot is banging on the "OMG you're soooo beautiful door!"

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    Default Re: Help texting girl from POF - what happened?

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    That's why you should trust your gut my friend. Trusting in what others say, especially those who seem to be very incapable of attracting woman, is like holding a fireball, it will fark you up.

    Rule of thumb/note to self: trust your gut
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    So lenric I should have gone my route instead of his? Although my route did break the rule of complementing her looks instead of her personality.

    Yeah side wider I'm still learning unfortunately..


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