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    Default Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    I've had some success with POF, but recently it's been dreadful.
    Typical scenario, get talking to a girl on POF, establish some interests. Convo stays interesting and lighthearted/funny. She gives me her number and we text for a bit. Then out of nowhere i get blanked completely. Not even as much as a 'sorry ive lost interest', nothing.
    This one girl i had spoken to loads via pof and texts, turned out we had a lot of common interests, then one day, nothing what so ever. I went off on one at one point and messaged her several times on POF and had no reply, yet i had seen her online loads since...

    Can anyone explain the problem? My only assumption is these girls have got chatting to better looking gym guys and moved on to them. Which does lead me to believe a lot of the stuff at PUA hate, which is you can have the most basic profile which just says 'ask me', and be ripped from pro hormones and gym work and you will always beat any average joe no matter how good his game is.
    The whole experience recently has really knocked my confidence and made me extremely frustrated. In the past 2 months i must have deleted about 15 numbers from my phone of girls which have just stopped talking...
    Any advice?

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    I totally out-gamed LOTS of "gym rats" on Match & POF.
    I'm just an average looking guy... average weight/height/build.... AND I'm 42.

    So it's not about being ripped.

    Text/message bombing a girl is one of the ultimate turn-offs to them.
    It implies neediness & is a bit suffocating.

    It sounds like you get off to a good start, but then something happens when you get into the message exchanges that's causing them to lose interest.

    Without any specifics, that's about all I can say at this point.


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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    I'm gonna be honest with you. If you don't look like a men's health cover model on your pics. You have little to no chance. I've spent the last 2-3 months trying to 'hack' the online game. There is just one. Good looks.

    I changed my profile txt infinite times, did the best selection of pics I could find. I created fake profiles of both man and woman. I tried different textes on all profiles. Long, short, cocky, more biographical, none. The results spoke for itself.

    Stay out of it, socialize, get out of the house.

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    Thought that was the case. Not knocking PUA as a whole but for online its basically useless. Will hit the gym more often this summer and bulk up a bit and improve my image, with some work i think id do much better online

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny-ist-ein-Depp View Post
    I'm gonna be honest with you. If you don't look like a men's health cover model on your pics. You have little to no chance. I've spent the last 2-3 months trying to 'hack' the online game. There is just one. Good looks.

    I changed my profile txt infinite times, did the best selection of pics I could find. I created fake profiles of both man and woman. I tried different textes on all profiles. Long, short, cocky, more biographical, none. The results spoke for itself.

    Stay out of it, socialize, get out of the house.
    Shut up. Ur obv. an AFC. @poster game doesn't come all at once it takes at least 7 months to get any competency. 2 to 3 years for mastery

    Ignore chode comments finding wings in your area will help u cultivate the right mindsets and take bootcamps with mpuas that are coming into your area. Anythi g rsd is good, gamblers good, justin wayne, chase armana, manwhore is a good instructor to listen too.
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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    I know of a PUA that I know personally that is 5 ft 5 & 150 lbs and he banged 30 chicks he met on match, he averaged about 3 dates a week. Clearly you aren't usingthe right techniques. personally online game isn't my cup of tea but I have seen it work.

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    I'd imagine Match is easier as its a paid site, so it wont have such a high number of men on there

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    You can go on the paid sites, be a millioniare, ripped gym rat or whatever but if you have a negative attitude such as yours thinking that women only fall for certain types then no wonder you have a bad record on the social sites. You may have read about the wealthy stockbroker in NY that advertised for a woman and still couldn't get one with all the money he had. I have a partner who is short, balding and not the most handsome guy in the world but he is turning the HBs out and I have seen him in action and the ladies leaving his apartment. Its not what you have or how you look but how you use it and the confidence you display. Try working on your inner game reading more on how to make your profile more interesting and appealing taking note of what works and what doesn't. It's not going to happen overnight so it will take time but to knock pua and say it doesn't work you're all wrong. The pua's on this site are sharp and have put a lot of time into their game and I have personally used some of the tips so I know they work. You need to do the same. Good luck man!

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    Then explain the following.
    Google: Autistic, socially awkward troll accounts with male models.

    Click the top result, then see for yourself.
    'I want to fuck you' works for the 'model' profile. And that is an example of a good looking guy with NO game whatsoever, and you think your balding friend would have a chance?

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    Default Re: Number close, then get ignored over and over...

    yo ur not listening...ur just doing urself more harm than good. your inner game is farked up. its all about confidence. go out and approach ppl and work it back up


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