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    shanghai_castle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Follow-up with girl after great night at club

    I met this amazing girl at a club 5 nights back. She gave me her card and number when we met and expressed interest in how i looked and what she liked about me. We hit off well, talked, danced a couple of times, flirted a bit -but she kept saying she was tierd that night and that she does not generally speak with strangers - she prided herself on being independent and strong minded. Later that night when we parted she said she didn't know me so she will go home herself - but asked me to call.

    (I am a new member here and now realize that I did not make my texts carry emptions when I texted her the next day). Her replies were short - one or two words - and i could not read signals, specially after such a nice night. I waited a day and sent her a text again to which she has not replied.

    How should I start it over again without sounding needy?

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    flyer1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Follow-up with girl after great night at club

    Have you tried calling her? If you call her and she still is vague then I would drop her and move on because anything you do at this point will seem needy. She told you to call her and maybe she wants to see how confident you are instead of texting. She said she was a strong confident woman which women use this excuse for guys not to take advantage of them. I would call try to arrange a meetup and guage her responses from there. What do you have to loose?

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    Default Re: Follow-up with girl after great night at club

    I agree with the response above, you should definitely call her and if she doesn't pick up wait a couple of weeks before trying to open her again, and possibly use an opener text that you see in the stickied threads.

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    Default Re: Follow-up with girl after great night at club

    Yep, another +1 for calling her.


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