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    Default Patience is Key

    To anyone who is learning or new to texting game, persistance, but patience, is key. I say this because people freak out when they don't get a text back right away. But, a lot of people aren't persistant enough when a girl likes them. I struggle with this myself. I'll give an example of a recent text convo I had from a number I got from day game. Keep in mind I had sent her one text since I met her and waited 24 hours to text her again.

    Me: Hey you. what's up? (pretty generic convo starter, but I didn't care)
    Her: Hey, nothin really just got out of practice we have are state championship game tomorrow, what's up? (she plays rugby)
    Me: Sweet, good luck... are you free this weekend?
    Her: My team has a mixer tomorrow night but we usually go out after to like the steer if you wanted to me meet out (the steer is a nearby bar for only 21 and over. I'm 20 and she's a senior)
    Me: sounds great... but last time i tried to go there my excuse of "I can handle my alcohol for being under 21" didn't work (my attempt to joke about being under age).
    Her: Well I will probably be drinking starting at like noon after my game so i doubt you will have anything to worry about (clearly she didn't get my joke)
    Me: ...ok, let me rephrase. I'm not 21.
    Her: You don't have a fake?
    Her: This is awkward.... (could tell she was still interested)
    Me: Not awkward if you don't make it.... but no, i dont have a fake... not the end of the world (me trying to play it cool. She doesn't respond after a while, so since i have nothing to lose, I try one more text to be persistent)
    Me: You free any other time this weekend? (I decide to be patient after this).
    Her: I am free sunday but I may be too hung over too move lol
    Me: well, my buddy wants to go out saturday probably to a party, and Im probably gonna be hungover as well, so what we can do is meet on south outside steer and hang out for a little at least (I decided to man the fark up and take control of the situation)
    Her: (she asks what party we're going to)
    Me: (I say we have a couple of options)
    Her: Yeah keep me posted we should definitely meet up at some point.

    I didn't reply from there. I'll text her tomorrow. But yeah, I decided to try to text her again not knowing if she would text me back, then I decided to wait it out, and behold, she replies back.

    Basically, the point is if she seems interested, but not replying, don't give up. And don't be afraid to send another text if you feel you have to

    Btw, anyone got any critiques of my text convo? I'm always wanting to improve text game

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    Default Re: Patience is Key

    Don't know dude, I rely on my gut. If it tells me not to send another reply, then I won't.
    I'm kinda against sending another reply on the same day if the latter one wasn't answered.
    Yeah, persistence is key, but persistence doesn't mean sending another text 1 hour after the other, if there's a lack of answer.

    Rely on your gut. Not on your heart or on your mind. Your gut is always right.

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    Default Re: Patience is Key

    Text game is rough but your right about patience. I have a girl who loves me but she sucks at texting. I only bother with her to meet up. It helps imagining having like 10 girls your texting and so if one doesn't reply it doesn't matter and you text her when convenient for you. Im just getting decent at text game so I cant critique too much.

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    Default Re: Patience is Key

    your text games pretty fine, even though its generic you're still making it work which is pretty cool cause ultimately if shes interested she'll keep texting or wanting to meet despite what you send over text, so you don't always have to be funny and sh1t

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    Default Re: Patience is Key

    I was also drunk, and mainly just looking to meet up. I didn't really feel the need to be funny and build attraction since I could tell by the length of her replies and her asking me to hang with her at a bar that she's already into me.


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