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    Default Help me dealing with this

    Hey guys! First date is coming up. I've been sarging this chic online, so we haven't even met yet. Anyway:

    We decided three days ago to meet up on wednesday next week, on a bar. Then suddenly last night when I was out and a bit drunk, she called me. Guess what? She invites herself over to my place tomorrow (sunday) and asks me to cook for her.
    To summarize, I somehow managed to say that we could discuss this a little bit more tomorrow (today) instead of just agree to everything, but I'm pretty sure I gave the impression that this would be a great idea *sigh*..

    Should I really let HER decide everything like this? I mean SHE invites herself over and decides which day. SHE "decides" that I should cook for her, meaning I would have to go and buy all stuff FOR HER plus cook.

    I know the answer to my question is NO, but how do I turn this around in the best way without messing things up? Suggestions are very welcome.

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    Default Re: Help me dealing with this

    if it were me i would say she can either come over and she can cook or you can go to hers and you can cook. thats just me cuz i can let her have a little bit but not all.
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    Default Re: Help me dealing with this

    Oh she's a feisty one. Great that she's taking initiative. Not so great she thinks she's the boss. Lol

    You don't want to constantly butt heads.

    You: No you cook

    Her: No you cook

    You: No you give me a massage

    Her: No you give me a massage

    Just find something ELSE for her to do for you. Tit for tat.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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