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    Asfalten is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Crash and burn, or can I save this?

    Hi there!
    I want some advice on my next move with this girl. Im not sure where to start, so Im just going to give you the full story :)

    I went to a bar with some friends where I met a girl.
    She went with us to a couple of other bars before she went home.

    The next day, I found her on FB and we texted a bit.

    I invited her with me and my friends to the same bar as the night before, and she accepted. We hit it off again and at the end of the night, she spent the night at my place.

    We cuddled, but nothing else happened.

    Rinse and repeat. On Wednesay I texted her and invited her to the bar again the next Friday. She was being flakey and asked if I wanted to come have a beer with her friend(she was at a bar when we texted, but I wasnt able to go!) Anyway.. I managed convince her. That Friday she arrived pretty late, around 21, and I was already pretty drunk with some friends.

    sh1t.. Long story short.. I was the most clingy person anyone have EVER heard of! And i'm talking about 30 text messaged between 1am and 4am. May god have mercy on my soul..

    The next day I apologized. This is our convo..:

    Me at 1am-4am: (30 spam messages) (SMS)
    Me at 4am: (A mild apology) (FB)

    [Next day]

    Her: You drunk!
    Me: Sorry, sorry, sorry! Hope I can make it up to you one day! :(
    Me: Please call me a prik!
    Her: Its perfectly fine :) you were just way too drunk!
    Me: Yes i was, and my behaviour was very poor! I was looking forward to spending time with you! :(
    Her: Its alright :) I had a pretty good time :)
    Me: I'm glad to hear that! One of these days I'm going to invite you out again, if your trust in me isnt completely gone :)
    Her: Haha you can always try :)
    Me: I can and I will, I dont give up that easily ;) Get ready to meet a real gentleman :)

    The next day, I called her, wanting to chat her up and, if the flow was right, invite her out the following week. But she didnt answer.

    45 minutes later, she texts me, and this is our convo.:

    Her: Whats up? Im over at my parents at the moment.
    Me: Sounds nice! I'm just with my studygroup at the moment, so is it okay if I call sometime tomorrow evening? :)
    Her: But what do you want?
    Me: Maby nothing, maby everything.

    Should I call her tomorrow? I didnt actually say I was going to, and she didnt answer my question! She responded boringly, so I did the same.

    So, how do I play my cards right? Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Crash and burn, or can I save this?

    I think you should call her, hang up and call her again simply to say "fuck, I was such a fucking wuss, I guess I dropped my balls in the bar the other night".

    "Her: Drunk!
    Me: Sorry, sorry, sorry! Hope I can make it up to you one day!
    Me: Please call me a prik!
    Her: Its perfectly fine you were just way too drunk!
    Me: Yes i was, and my behaviour was very poor! I was looking forward to spending time with you!
    Her: Its alright I had a pretty good time
    Me: I'm glad to hear that! One of these days I'm going to invite you out again, if your trust in me isnt completely gone
    Her: Haha you can always try
    Me: I can and I will, I dont give up that easily Get ready to meet a real gentleman "

    This was just too wussy dude, you were supplicating, you put her WAY above you, you apologized loads of time, you qualified yourself, etc etc etc. The only thing good I saw was her first reply (Drunk!).

    Befriend this girl and remember that what you told her is exactly what you must avoid tell any other girl.

    Don't ask if you can call her someday... dude, do you ask your bowel if it wants to release the kraken? You simply unleash it. Why in the hell should you ask someone to know if you can do something? Do they master you?

    Man up mate, do whatever the fuck you want and stop asking for the approval of the other souls... stop living your life through the others rules and expectations, live by your own rules.

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    Asfalten is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Crash and burn, or can I save this?

    I agree.. How about I wait a day or two before I contact her again? Just to show that I have other things to do..?

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    Default Re: Crash and burn, or can I save this?

    If you want to show her you have other things to do, it means you don't have other things to do. Plus, it clearly demonstrates you're seeking for a reaction...

    My advice is simply to really get other things to do. Study something, go surfing, go running, meet new girls, etc. And only then, when you really have other things to do, and other people to text, you should think about texting her, you'll be less needy, less supplicating, less on the bad things and more on the good ones.
    You'll text her in a fresh way, like you just washed up your balls with cold water and put them to the wind.

    Do that buddy, start talking with other people in the street. Start cracking jokes on people who are working at malls. Go live the life you want to live!

    Best of luck mate


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