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    Default Interesting girl sending pictures of her kid.

    Girl I met on POF has on a few occasions sent me pictures of her daughter. We talk on Skype (because I am out of the country) and when I came back to my room there were pics of her kid waiting for me.

    She has also sent scantily clad pictures and she has no problems showing off her piercings, etc. to me.

    We have talked openly about sex with eachother and she is very turned on about it all.

    I have not met her in person yet.

    What's the deal with the kid pictures? How should I handle this?

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    Default Re: Interesting girl sending pictures of her kid.

    By the looks of it, she's opening up to you and sh1t testing you at the same time. She wants to see how you will react when you figure out she has a kid. My recommendation is to not come off as shocked or upset. In fact, show some interest, ask her about her kid and such. Just avoid the "Who is the dad?" question.
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    Default Re: Interesting girl sending pictures of her kid.

    Clearly the kid is a big deal in the woman's life. She has sexual desires, but also the safety and care of her child is important. She has to see how well you react to it and gauge where you are in relation to a long-term status in her life.

    Let me theoretically cut off my dick for a second: Better to cut your losses now if you have a problem with dating someone with a child. I've seen the look on the child's face when you're in bed with mommy and they don't know who the fuck you are. It sticks with you. I don't know who was more traumatized, me or the child lol. Don't be that guy!
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    Default Re: Interesting girl sending pictures of her kid.

    Thanks for the input guys! I have been very supportive of her daughter, complimenting her in that she must have "inherited her momma's good genes". However, I will gracefully change the subject whenever I can. It has always gone smoothly.

    She is a single mother who has a kid. Of course she is conscious of how this can be a sticking point for her and I imagine she just wanted to be sure that I am cool with that before moving on to any kind of relationship.

    I agree and think it's best to treat her kid with respect and grace while simultaneously not coming off as a willing father figure. I told her that we need to see where the relationship goes first as I am really just looking for a fun and exciting woman that will bring out the best in me.


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