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    Default Jealousy, how to deal with it.

    When you're jealous that your woman has an interest in other people that you know she's attracted to and hangs out with them and you know they're attracted back...how do you deal with this. I'm getting kinda angsty about it...I haven't told her I'm jealous of this new connection she has with a friend I introduced her to and it's starting to worry me.

    I was wondering what effect I would have if I told her about this in an attempt to get her to back off the dude a bit and spend more time with me. Writing that last line already sounds like bad territory but what would happen?

    I've done a reasonable good job at masking it from her...but I'd like to know the general outcome of each different path I could possibly take will have for general knowledge of this situation for the future.

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    Default Re: Jealousy

    Well how you should react really depends on how serious the relationship is. If it is a serious LTR then yes express your concern and let her know you're not comfortable with the situation. If she can't understand and respect that and won't back off, then you can either try to increase your value and make her want you more than him, or drop her like a bad habit. Don't be whiny and emotional about it, just tell her how it is.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Jealousy

    Can you define situations of what "whiny" and "emotional" may typically look like in this situation?

    Also, what effect would it have specifically. Thanks for the reply...just need some more details.

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    Default Re: Jealousy

    We can't read the future man, but I can tell you that admitting your jealous is never a good strategy. Because at the root of all jealousy is insecurity. You're worried that she'll go for him instead of you because he's better than you. You need to be worrying about your self confidence before you even think about this chick. Look up stuff on inner game and work on becoming an Alpha Male.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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